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Very interesting.
“What I am trying to say is that one can't indulge in love at any price. Like at the expense of others.
You think that's what we were doing?
You don't think so?
You are asking me? You who were always ready to sacrifice me?
As if I wasn't a human being at all, as if only she was one. Why don't you say something? You're angry now. Wait, wait a moment, surely you admit that you've always decided…
— Aug 23, 2026 11:33AM
“What I am trying to say is that one can't indulge in love at any price. Like at the expense of others.
You think that's what we were doing?
You don't think so?
You are asking me? You who were always ready to sacrifice me?
As if I wasn't a human being at all, as if only she was one. Why don't you say something? You're angry now. Wait, wait a moment, surely you admit that you've always decided…
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Adri Woehler
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“Out of his isolation man can be liberated not only by love but also by hate. Hate is mistakenly regarded as the opposite of love, whereas in reality it stands alongside love and the opposite of both of them is loneliness. We often believe that we are tied to someone by love, and meanwhile we're only tied to them by hate, which we prefer to loneliness.”
— Aug 27, 2026 10:18PM
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“Her slight body ceaseless rears against mine, she trembles with delight, her eyes grow misty. Devoutly she begs me not to leave her, again and again she wants me, she knows no respite in love-making any more than in her work, any more than in anything she undertakes, she sweeps me along like a vortex, she rouses in me a strength I never suspected I had...”
— Aug 27, 2026 10:00PM
Adri Woehler
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So touching.
“And I said nothing, even though that evening I wanted to be with her, to stay with her, to shield her from the icy waters, whose roar I’d managed to hear myself at the moment of total silence. But who stay with my wife, who’d embrace her in the silence, which would enfold her? To whom would she turn when fear gripped her?”
— Aug 26, 2026 01:08PM
“And I said nothing, even though that evening I wanted to be with her, to stay with her, to shield her from the icy waters, whose roar I’d managed to hear myself at the moment of total silence. But who stay with my wife, who’d embrace her in the silence, which would enfold her? To whom would she turn when fear gripped her?”
Adri Woehler
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“Saintliness had been invented by those who were afraid of life and real emotions. That’s why they elevated ecstatic rapture to something we should look up to, to something we should regard as a model.”
— Aug 26, 2026 01:02PM
Adri Woehler
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“The apocalypse can take different forms. The least dramatic, at first sight, is the one in which Man perishes under an avalanche of useless objects, emptied words, and excessive activity.”
— Aug 25, 2026 09:59PM
Adri Woehler
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“or prams.
I was reminded of the woman whose things I'd moved. She had a dead soul, she believed in Armageddon, and she took delight in things she'd saved from the dustbins. She probably used them to fill the emptiness that had remained within her after her soul had died….
— Aug 23, 2026 12:10PM
I was reminded of the woman whose things I'd moved. She had a dead soul, she believed in Armageddon, and she took delight in things she'd saved from the dustbins. She probably used them to fill the emptiness that had remained within her after her soul had died….
Adri Woehler
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“… the unsuccessful lover Franz Kafka, was preparing for his fall into the black pit, where his brittle soul concurred with his sick lungs that they would give up the exhausting struggle.”
— Aug 23, 2026 10:01AM
Adri Woehler
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“I know that to remain with one’s past partner when one has come to like another person is considered weakness or even betrayal of ourselves and the person we now love.”
— Aug 22, 2026 08:16AM
Adri Woehler
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“ there is nothing by which person can justify a lie. It corrodes the soul just as much as indifference or hate. There are many ways of destroying one’s soul.”
— Aug 22, 2026 08:13AM
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“ she also wrote to me that she loved me to the point of feeling anguish and pain, that she experienced a terrible pain because I was not with her at this moment, just now on everything that was good in her was crying out to me.”
— Aug 22, 2026 07:10AM



I didn't decide against you, I wasn't free to decide for you.
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It worried me precisely in the respect you're talking about.
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A chance of what? Weren't we together enough?
You were never only with me. Not even a week. Not even a day!
You were never with me except secretly. Even by the sea...
Don't cry!
And I believed you. I thought you loved me and would find some way for us to remain together. At least for a time.
I did love you. But there was no way round. Surely people aren't things which you can move to another place when they seem to have served their purpose. I could only either remain here or join you.
You're so noble about other people. But you calmly moved me as far away as possible when I'd served my purpose. Wait, wait, tell me one more thing: are you happy at least? Don't you regret anything? Why aren't you saying anything? If you've no regrets about me don't you at least have any about yourself?
You think I should have regrets about myself?
him.
Surely it's sad if a person has loved somebody and then loses
I know, but a person can lose something worse.
What is there that's worse for a person to lose?
Perhaps his soul.
Your soul? You lost your soul with me? You shouldn't have said that! What do you know about the soul? You're just a pack of excuses!