Anthony Borja’s Reviews > The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love > Status Update

Themes: patriarchal violence and how it manifests in our sexual being. “Fucking” and pornography; how men can realize violence, power, and revenge in a society in which it is still too acceptable.
The refusal of men to allow themselves to be intimate and vulnerable. If we cannot open our hearts for love and intimacy, sexual violence and “fucking” becomes the only means of “intimacy” remaining.