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This is what Socrates meant when he said, “the unexamined life is not worth living.“ In other words, a life that is not deeply questioned is bereft of meaning. The deeper the questions without easy answers – or any answers at all – the better.

What sets Homo sapiens apart from other living beings-& gives us a spark of the divine– isn’t the ability to give answers to increasingly complicated problems. It’s the willingness & capacity to wonder & inquire about things large & small that’re the essence of our uniquely human consciousness. & not surprisingly, therefore, this is the first habit of people with meaningful lives: they ask a lot of q’s

Addictions are actually a side effect of the brain's ability 2 learn things that are good for us, using a neurotransmitter—a chemical released by neurons to communicate w 1another-called dopamine. This is a chemical that makes u feel anticipation of a reward from doing something u like, as well the reward itself. The anticipation & rewards create patterns of behavior based on wanting and liking-leading to learning

Scientists define an addiction as behavior w 5 components. 1: it’s compulsive, meaning it features an overwhelming urge 2: loss of control, meaning u give in to the compulsion even if u don't want to 3: cont. use in spite of the harm it does 4: craving, which is a preoccupation w the behavior or substance 5: tolerance & withdrawal, meaning u need more & more over time (escalation) & it gets harder & harder to stop

This is our ancestral environment, and our brains were, and are, built to help us survive under these conditions. Among other ways they did so was with a little chunk of tissue in the limbic system called the dorsal anterior cingulate cortex (dACC), which has one very important job: making you feel pain when separated from your people.

The meaning doom loop is a self-reinforcing cycle where people turn to addictive technologies out of boredom and emptiness, leading to even less engagement with life’s deeper questions. This exacerbates the crisis of meaning – as well as the sadness and anxiety that come from it.

Modern life pushes you into the brain’s left hemisphere – focused on solving technical, discrete problems with technology and detail obsession – while neglecting what is “numinous“ in the right hemisphere. This is where meaning, purpose, and deep human connection reside. This shift results in a sense of emptiness and boredom.

And the mystery of faith is that divinity cannot be proven or disproven – as though it were a complicated problem – but must be embraced as a complex, mysterious proposition about the human condition, a supernatural love that transcends earthly evidence, the digital preservation of the soul, or even the ability to explain

The spark of inspiration about how to live a full life depends on the fact that it *doesn’t* go on forever, so we must make the most of it