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I still struggle with articulating my needs. (…) Believing that I deserve love is a work in progress for me.
— Oct 02, 2026 01:03PM
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Stephanie Pusca
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Although you have to work on a relationship, you shouldn’t have to work on convincing someone to love you.
— Oct 02, 2026 11:54PM
Stephanie Pusca
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Romance is finding ways to show someone they’re appreciated. (…)
Love doesn’t disappear when you aren’t quiet and perfect.
— Oct 02, 2026 01:06PM
Love doesn’t disappear when you aren’t quiet and perfect.
Stephanie Pusca
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When you don't understand or value yourself it's
more difficult to generate love for other people. It made me see, too, that I had never really loved the men I'd dated and idealized in my twenties. I had not been invested in helping them grow, or in seeing the whole of who they were, because I was more interested in how I looked in their perception of me. It was a half-hearted version of love, rooted in ego.
— Oct 02, 2026 06:35AM
more difficult to generate love for other people. It made me see, too, that I had never really loved the men I'd dated and idealized in my twenties. I had not been invested in helping them grow, or in seeing the whole of who they were, because I was more interested in how I looked in their perception of me. It was a half-hearted version of love, rooted in ego.
Stephanie Pusca
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“I need to work on breaking out of my role as caregiver, because that's rooted in wanting to be needed. I've woven a big part of my identity through looking after people, and I know that part of love in friendship is asking for your needs to be met too.” - Candice Carty-Williams
— Sep 27, 2026 11:39PM