Fiona’s Reviews > Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy > Status Update

I like the reframing where it's autonomy/independence vs. community/dependence and it's a spectrum. "The healthy range on this spectrum corresponds to the skills and abilities of the secure attachment style, where a person is able to embrace their autonomy without fear of abandonment, as well as dive deep into intimacy and connection without the concern of engulfment."