Lundyn Michalek’s Reviews > The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom > Status Update

Just finished the fourth chapter - do not make assumptions
-you making an assumption, we misunderstand we take it personally and create a big drama for no reason
-always ask questions even if they are hard or uncomfortable
-never make assumptions instead ask questions
-if others change it’s bc they want to change not bc of something you said or did. You can NOT change people

Finished chapter 3 -agreement2
-don’t take anything personally
-what anyone does is not a reflection of you, it’s a reflection of them and their beliefs
-“if others say one thing, but do another, you are lying to yourself if you don’t listen to their actions” very impactful quote
-people will try to send emotional pain because they’re hurting,but if you don’t take it personally, you can never be hurt

What I have learned thus far: 1)how much you love yourself is reflection of how much you will tolerate from other people.
2) be impeccable with your word; keeping promises not spreading hate, allowing your mind to be a breeding ground for positive self talk and thoughts

So good