Emily’s Reviews > Party of One: Truth, Longing, and the Subtle Art of Singleness > Status Update

"Here's the thing about telling women their confidence and accomplishments are deterrents to finding a spouse: as opposed to empowering our men to find more purpose in a relationship outside of being the sole provider, we're telling women that they're the problem. This feels like a different version of the modesty discussion. It's not about equipping and challenging men--it's about teaching women how to compensate."