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We live by the paradigms we know.

Family— tight knit vs independent and what that shows for your relationship

None of this was his fault, but it wasn’t equal,either, and for any woman who lives by the mantra that equality is important, this can be a little confusing— regarding getting pregnant; in vitro

I see now how this must’ve come across to my mother who is been in the ninth year of a job she taken primarily so she could help finance my college education, after years of not having a job so that she could be free to so my school clothes, cook my meals, and do laundry for my dad... was hardly ready to indulge my angst about fulfillment. Fulfillment I’m sure struck her as a rich person’s conceit

The second was that I was deeply delightfully in love with a guy who is forceful intellect and ambition could possibly end up swallowing mine I saw it coming already like a barreling way but the mighty undertow I wasn’t going to get out of its path I was too committed to Barack I have been too in love but I did need to quickly anchor myself on two feet