Aurakinski’s Reviews > Heroes, Villains, and Healing: A Guide for Male Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse Using D.C. Comic Superheroes and Villains > Status Update

"Oooh, this book has some good assignments. I especially like the chapter about changing your thoughts - as the book has concrete suggestions and examples, rather than just saying: "Stop thinking like that" and leaving it there."

This book gives me so much to think about. About survivors & victims, but also about abusers & spectators, and the language society in general uses when refering to abusive situations. I have felt a bit distanced for a big part of the book, since it constantly says: ”This is for MEN, not for you”. But I think that distance has also ironically made it easier to reflect on my own experiences. Very worthwhile.

Oh woww, this is dark. Maybe it goes without saying that this book about child sexual abuse needs a huge TW, but I’ll say it anyway. Especially now, 70% into the book, as the author described in detail what happened to himself as a child.

I find it very confusing that the author keeps talking about how ”survivors = heroes” and ”victims = villains”, while at the same time clamouring about how we can only heal through getting rid of black and white thinking. I wonder if he means that once people are healed, the are no longer either one of them?