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If I do not have importance, I have nothing to defend and nothing to conquer.

“Thou shall not make for thou self an idol, whether in the form of anything that is in heaven above, or that is on the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. Thou shall not bow down to them or worship them”

Imagine what kind of jungle people are actually living in. They always have to be on their guard, view everyone as potential enemies, even if a relationship appears to be amicable on the outside. Everyone cares for themselves and is always ready to defend themselves. This is not an exaggeration in any way, it is just that we are all long used to this being the state of affairs.

If a person received a blow to his significance & remained silent, do not be thinking that he didn’t get hurt in any way or that he accepted the blow. Resentment will live – if not in his consciousness, then in his subconscious. You won the argument, & you believe that by doing so you increased your significance. But you did it at the expense of your opponent, decreasing his significance.

You won’t gain anything by winning an argument. However, you could very well get yourself a new enemy. If a person is talking nonsense with confidence, and you make it clear to him, he will never agree with such a thing. Or, rather, if he has a tendency to self-reproach and a heightened feeling of guilt, he might agree with you. But do you need to win over somebody like that?

You could ask: why should I listen to others, take interest in them, pay attention to them, love them, respect them, while they are busy with only themselves, and don’t even want to listen to me? Alright, and why should they be interested in you and admire you, love and respect you? 😆

what will you achieve by, in one case, imposing yourself onto a person, and in the other case showing interest in him. Of course, you will be the perfect match if you give him the satisfaction of his significance. If he obtains this satisfaction, he will shut his eyes to your obvious flaws and forgive your weaknesses.All of these things are the last to be considered by a person.
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