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"Scapegoats often carry intense shame, self-doubt, and self-destructive tendencies that hobble them in adulthood. Their long-term trauma can cause debilitating CPTSD and lead to ongoing health and financial problems. Family members may feel varying levels of concern or bewilderment about the scapegoat’s struggles or regard such problems as further justification of his/her outcast role."
— Oct 16, 2023 09:56PM
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L.E. Heron
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Contrary to what we are taught to believe, there is no strict life schedule. Understanding an abusive relationship, particularly with a narcissist, is especially difficult because of the complex trauma involved. Healing from trauma is three steps forward, one step back, one step sideways. It is common for childhood trauma sufferers to remain in a survivalist state of denial and self-blame well into middle adulthood.
— Oct 16, 2023 10:29PM
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Scapegoats outsider status, combined with inner strength and independent-mindedness that put them at odds with their narcissistic parents, can motivate them to confront the family dynamics and seek greater understanding and healing as adults. Highly empathetic in response to being bullied and trained to consider others’ needs, they have the potential to transcend narcissistic patterns and forge meaningful connections
— Oct 16, 2023 10:00PM