Lenny’s Reviews > My Dark Vanessa > Status Update

How can she said she wasn't abuse if every time they had "sex" she would take herself out as far as she could. Think of other things like bread, her mother and more.

"Be a good girl Vanessa. You know what you're capable of." Excuse me sir, you literally groomed her to think, to act like that!! All the gaslighting he did since she was 15!!

It's so sad that Vanessa doesn't own herself. That every time she does something it's always about how " What would Strane do. Strane talks for me."

No, it's not like she thinks of something else but like she's punishing herself for being with him since she was 16? It's kind of disturbing that she's not even enjoying whatever they have going on.

Why is she still with him every time they're together she just starts to think of other stuff! Why!!???

Oh my God! If you don't know what gaslighting is, this man is IT!!! Holy sh!t!!!! So many freaking years she supported him and she really never saw what he was doing?

*To be groomed is to be loved and handled like a precious delicate thing.* Wow, what's scary about this quote is that there are people who actually think like that. From predators to victims. It's really scary to think that maybe a family member/friend can think like that.

I mean if he wasn't guilty as the media is trying to prove, why did he do it? Why take the cowards way out. And he doesn't even deny anything to Vanessa!!!

Hold the mother fu**ing phone! And she still defends him after all those years? She's taking the blame for them and he says "you'll be branded for life" instead of helping her! What the actual F!!