أبو الملايين’s Reviews > Bad Boys Finish First: How to Stop Being the Nice Guy and Become the Man Women Can’t Resist > Status Update

Women are not attracted to nice guys because nice guys fail to ignite their attraction triggers. In fact, it could be argued they do just the opposite.

Remember, it is how a man makes a woman feel that matters, and how you make a woman feel is determined by your behaviour.

So why is it that nice guys are unattractive to women?
Don't women love it when a guy is willing to help them out all the time and do whatever she wants?

The simple answer is no.

Nice guy's are generally unassertive and afraid to express their true feelings. The nice guy does not just appear in dating, but in all aspects of life. Whether it is expressing their desire for a woman or having the courage to say 'no' to people, a nice guy's behavior manifests itself in all aspects of his life.

If she fails to read the nice guy's secret feelings, however, the nice guy will become embittered and blame her for taking advantage of him and his niceness.

The term 'nice guy' is a euphemism for insecure men unwilling to articulate their romantic or sexual feelings directly. Instead, nice guys choose to present themselves as their paramour's friend, and hang around, doing nice things for her in the hopes that she will one day pick up on his desire for her.

Why do women find nice guys unattractive?

When it comes to sexual interest, the word 'nice' can be a shorthand antonym for bold, strong, sexy and exciting. Instead, 'nice' can be a synonym for needy, weak, predictable and boring.

Consequently, as harsh as it might be, women are often repulsed by the idea of being sexually involved with a man she considers to be a 'nice guy'. Women will even flat out say "I don't think of you that way."

Women are still instinctively attracted to men who they subconsciously feel would be able to protect them. Not consciously, but subconsciously.

So the key thing to take away here is this: women are attracted to the way you make them feel. And how a woman feels around a man is dictated by his behavior.

To be safe and to survive, women needed strong, dominant men. Women being physically weaker and more vulnerable are instinctively attracted to men who they feel can protect them.