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Isabel is on page 27 of 288

"Many people scratch their heads about why adult bullies succeed repeatedly, but they are looking in the wrong places for answers. Most people who became adult bullies' targets of blame wonder what they did to cause bullies to attack them. They often feel isolated and ashamed. They look for issues, causes and root problems. They don't understand that all these are completely beside the point."

— Jul 02, 2024 08:19AM

Our New World of Adult Bullies: How to Spot Them ― How to Stop Them

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Isabel is on page 91 of 288

Wait. Since it was done by an adult mother and an eighteen year old employee, isn't the employee also a part of that easily manipulated under twenty fivers?

— Jul 02, 2024 10:56AM

Isabel is on page 91 of 288

"Remember the power of PEP includes intense love or obsession (love bombing), but its true goal is to seal the target's loyalty."

— Jul 02, 2024 10:54AM

Isabel is on page 84 of 288

"It's how they get you to do something you wouldn't do if you knew the truth. It's how they win and you lose, and get you to help them take advantage of you or others by using their PEP on you."

— Jul 02, 2024 10:30AM

Isabel is on page 84 of 288

"A con is designed to gain power over you and others."

— Jul 02, 2024 10:29AM

Isabel is on page 70 of 288

"Instead of disagreeing with your values, beliefs or behavior, they attack your being. They'll tell others, or the world, that you are a terrible, sinful, shameful, human being."

— Jul 02, 2024 09:33AM

Isabel is on page 64 of 288

"Bullies require the inaction of their targets and the tolerance (or ignorance or complicity) of lots of other people in order to continue their bullying."

— Jul 02, 2024 09:29AM

Isabel is on page 58 of 288

"Bullies also use primitive vocal sounds, domineering tones of voice, sounds of great confidence, and threatening exclamations that are meant to strike fear in their targets."

— Jul 02, 2024 09:27AM

Isabel is on page 58 of 288

"They may sit surrounded by other people to make them look even bigger."

— Jul 02, 2024 08:46AM

Isabel is on page 30 of 288

"Bullies want to get into your head and manipulate you, to make you doubt yourself and believe in them."

— Jul 02, 2024 08:27AM

Isabel is on page 30 of 288

"It usually takes place where there is power imbalance or a perceived power imbalance."

— Jul 02, 2024 08:24AM