anne’s Reviews > It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle > Status Update

„The problem is not what our parents have done to us; the problem is how we're still holding on to it. Generally, when our parents caused us harm, it was unintentional.“

Are you fucking kidding me… I agree, that you should talk about trauma but blaming someone that has experienced abuse both mentally and physically, is fucking ridiculous…..The PROBLEM IS the behavior of the ABUSER!