AJ Langham’s Reviews > The Ethical Slut, Third Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love > Status Update

The benefits of monogamy

“ transcend competitiveness: there’s enough of everything for everybody”

“Partnerships can have a secondary relationship outside of the primary or a number of lovers that don’t get ranked in any hierarchy”

“Monogamish is an agreement between both halves of a couple that their bond takes precedence over any outside connections, but that the occasional brief fling is acceptable and perhaps even desirable for keeping the home fires burning.”

This is actually helpful outside of just sluthood tbh

This is actually so good. I love it