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I can't express this enough, if you have nothing nice to say then don't say anything at all. It just takes a single moment to leave a respectful comment on someone's review, there's no need for hateful/rude comments. I have received a few on my reviews lately, I choose to ignore them until I can think of something to say, but in the end I deleted them. Please be respectful to others💗.
— Sep 24, 2024 04:08PM
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ThatBookish_deviant
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Sep 24, 2024 04:11PM
If people would just treat others as they’d like to be treated. How can such a simple concept be so difficult for many? ✌🏿🫶🏾
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ThatBookish_deviant wrote: "If people would just treat others as they’d like to be treated. How can such a simple concept be so difficult for many? ✌🏿🫶🏾"THIS!!!!!!! What happened to treating others the way you want to be treated?
Omg Cara love you don't deserve that at all
You don’t deserve ANY of that, nobody does 😕 I’m so sorry people are being cruel ilysm 🩷
Storm The Gremlin Child ~Semi-Hiatus~ wrote: "Omg Cara love you don't deserve that at all"It doesn't affect me, but I felt like I had to post this because other people can be struggling with their mental health and receive hateful comments and spiral downhill😭😭
Why would someone do that? I don't understand why people chose to be so cruel. We are all entitled to our own opinion and you are the sweetest person ever. You are an amazing book bestie and I would just delete them so you don't have to deal with it again. ILYSM my gorgeous Queen!❤️
aeryn wrote: "You don’t deserve ANY of that, nobody does 😕 I’m so sorry people are being cruel ilysm 🩷"It's okay, babe😭😭, I love you too💓!!
Lindsey♡ wrote: "Why would someone do that? I don't understand why people chose to be so cruel. We are all entitled to our own opinion and you are the sweetest person ever. You are an amazing book bestie and I woul..."I thought so too, I thought Goodreads was supposed to be our safe place, but people can be so rude. Oh girl, I just delete them after choosing not to engage with them, I love you more, my queen❤❤!!
That’s exactly why I turned my comments to friends only! People hide behind screens to be hateful. As if reading wasn’t subjective! I’m sorry you had to go through this my gorgeous princess. You don’t deserve this 😞💗💗
DIS MAKES ME SAD BECAUSE I LOVE YOU AND YOU DESERVE NO HATE 😭 Bestie love your reviews and you keep slaying 💕
Maeghan 🦋 HIATUS on & off wrote: "That’s exactly why I turned my comments to friends only! People hide behind screens to be hateful. As if reading wasn’t subjective! I’m sorry you had to go through this my gorgeous princess. You do..."Oh girl, it's always the troll accounts too😂💗. It doesn't bother me, but I just thought I'd share this with others who constantly get hateful comments😘.
Kaitlyn ☆.☽ wrote: "DIS MAKES ME SAD BECAUSE I LOVE YOU AND YOU DESERVE NO HATE 😭 Bestie love your reviews and you keep slaying 💕"STOP, I LITERALLY LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤❤!! Oh don't worry girl, Ima keep doing me and writing my reviews the way I like😘😘!!!
My Beautiful, GORGEOUS, Sweet, Bestie reading buddy your reviews slay me (did I use that word right??? lol). LOVE YOU TO BITS GIRL! 🥰🥰😘😘🩷🩷🩷
imagine hating on someone on GOODSREADS…like what?? it’s just an app for book lovers chill out
Angela wrote: "My Beautiful, GORGEOUS, Sweet, Bestie reading buddy your reviews slay me (did I use that word right??? lol). LOVE YOU TO BITS GIRL! 🥰🥰😘😘🩷🩷🩷"YOU ARE JUST THE CUTEST, THANK YOU SO MUCH, MY GORGEOUS SWEET BEAUTIFUL GENUINE READING GIRL, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH💋❤!!!!!!!!!
alex ✧ wrote: "imagine hating on someone on GOODSREADS…like what?? it’s just an app for book lovers chill out"
EXACTLY!!!!! I thought reading was subjective?
Reading is subjective, I don’t get why people are mad of someone’s OWN opinion. Sorry you received some of those 💗💗💗
love, they’re just insecure in themselves and think attacking other people to lower their self esteem will work. They see you shining. 🌟 happy you chose to ignore them 💖 hope you enjoy the rest of your week
omg my love :( i’m sorry people are such jerks ily 🫂🫂🫂
So true ❤️. I love your heart. I hope no one would say anything negative to you love.
I always LOVE seeing your reviews come across my feed. Your kind heart shows in your words! Sorry you had to experience that💛
This is what I tell my kids about bullies on social media. Remember what Hagrid from Harry Potter said to Hermione when she experienced this. He said "Don't think on it."
Oh no, hope nothing happened cara bby. ilysm
Noo I’m so sorry you are going through this honey 🐝😭 im here for you 💖
Am so sorry girl. People on GR really need to understand that reading is subjective and everyone will have a difference of opinion. There's no need to engage if you don't feel comfortable, this is supposed to be your safe space ❤
Yesss THIS!!! I got some awful comments on a review the other day, and I think deleting them might be the best thing to do! I need to stop trying to answer ‘cause I’m not gonna get any good replies back 😞 Sorry this happened to you too loveee 🫂💘 sending you lots of hugs and positivity ✨💞
Aww, who said mean things to our sweet cara💗🥺
This!! People need to learn if they don’t like what they see, then they need to keep on scrolling!! Especially on your reviews- yours are always respectful and sweet! 💗
ray wrote: "Reading is subjective, I don’t get why people are mad of someone’s OWN opinion. Sorry you received some of those 💗💗💗"It's okay, I'm all good, thank you for your kind words💖. I thought reading was subjective as well, like I clearly state these are MY OWN opinions, simply if you don't like them just move on.
Erin wrote: "love, they’re just insecure in themselves and think attacking other people to lower their self esteem will work. They see you shining. 🌟 happy you chose to ignore them 💖 hope you enjoy the rest of ..."Thank you, hun💗!! I hope you enjoy the rest of your week as well, keep shining you're amazing😘⭐!!
Serenity F. Helzerman wrote: "Yeah, it is rude!"Exactly!
megan ◡̈ wrote: "omg my love :( i’m sorry people are such jerks ily 🫂🫂🫂"I love you more💋💕!!
Jenna wrote: "So true ❤️. I love your heart. I hope no one would say anything negative to you love."It's happened, but I choose to just ignore them😘💗!!
Christina (stinarinareads) wrote: "I always LOVE seeing your reviews come across my feed. Your kind heart shows in your words! Sorry you had to experience that💛"Thank you so much, love, you're just the sweetest💞!!
Christie wrote: "This is what I tell my kids about bullies on social media. Remember what Hagrid from Harry Potter said to Hermione when she experienced this. He said "Don't think on it.""Realest advice I have come across lately💖💖!!!!!!
Mary ♥ wrote: "Oh no, hope nothing happened cara bby. ilysm"Mary, I love you so much💓!!!!!!
Meagan✨ wrote: "Noo I’m so sorry you are going through this honey 🐝😭 im here for you 💖"Thank you, my stunning honey bun😭💋💕!!
SK wrote: "Am so sorry girl. People on GR really need to understand that reading is subjective and everyone will have a difference of opinion. There's no need to engage if you don't feel comfortable, this is ..."Exactly, not everyone is going to have the same opinion on a book, everybody reads the same titled book, but we all interpret them differently💗!!
Who did something to you? Give me their name and profile please
Brooke wrote: "Yesss THIS!!! I got some awful comments on a review the other day, and I think deleting them might be the best thing to do! I need to stop trying to answer ‘cause I’m not gonna get any good replies..."This makes me so sad, you're literally the sweetest😭😭❤❤!!!!!!! I let their comments sit for a little bit, but then I come back and just end up deleting them because I don't feel like engaging with rude people!
Utkarsh wrote: "Aww, who said mean things to our sweet cara💗🥺"Just the silly little trolls😭💞!!!!!
Rachel wrote: "This!! People need to learn if they don’t like what they see, then they need to keep on scrolling!! Especially on your reviews- yours are always respectful and sweet! 💗"Thank you so much for your kind words, Rachel💗!!!! I try to be respectful with my reviews, because at the end of the day we are all just humans, we deserve respect, but I'm going to state in my review what I didn't like, so if someone doesn't like that then they can kindly keep scrolling😇!!!!!!
It costs nothing to be kind. Ignore anyone who doesn't leave something respectful. Not for you, the sweetest girl, or anyone! I'm sorry that happened to you 🥺
Leonie (semi hiatus) wrote: "Who did something to you? Give me their name and profile please"https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/1...
I deleted her comment from my review, but if you scroll down her page, she reviewed Love Letters to a Serial Killer, if you see where she updated the book and said " stupid book" she commented "stupid review" under mine.
Susan wrote: "It costs nothing to be kind. Ignore anyone who doesn't leave something respectful. Not for you, the sweetest girl, or anyone! I'm sorry that happened to you 🥺"You're the sweetest, thank you so much, beautiful😭❤!!!!!!!!!!
I can't imagine posting rude comments over someone's review that shares their thoughts. I am so sorry you had to deal with this, Cara. Love you beautiful girl ♡
leah jurgs 𝜗𝜚 wrote: "I can't imagine posting rude comments over someone's review that shares their thoughts. I am so sorry you had to deal with this, Cara. Love you beautiful girl ♡"I can't even imagine having the time of day to leave rude comments. I love you too, sweet girl❤💋!!
