Elif ’s Reviews > The Gift of Therapy: An Open Letter to a New Generation of Therapists and Their Patients > Status Update

Im way past page 170 but in this chapter Yolam talks about how people with a victim mindset need to give up the idea of wanting a better past. He used one of his patients as an example who cant move forward in life. This patient keeps blaming his mother for what she did so Yolan made him repeat "Mom I wont change until you treat my 8 y/o self better" whenever he blamed his mom for the things that are happening now

Love it so far