Michael G. Thompson
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Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys
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1999
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27 editions
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Best Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children
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2001
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16 editions
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It's a Boy! Understanding Your Son's Development from Birth to Age 18
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2007
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10 editions
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Homesick and Happy: How Time Away from Parents Can Help a Child Grow
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2012
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Speaking of Boys: Answers to the Most-Asked Questions About Raising Sons
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2000
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The Pressured Child: Helping Your Child Find Success in School and Life
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2004
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Mom, They're Teasing Me: Helping Your Child Solve Social Problems
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2002
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11 editions
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Finding the Heart of the Child
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1993
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2 editions
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Raising Cain
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危ない少年たちを救え
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“Sometimes, however, unmet attachment needs have a positive impact on future relationships, if those later friendships are experienced as second chances. Eager to love and be loved, eager to meet those basic needs for caring and affiliation, children can make up for those unmet needs by being outgoing, having strong leadership qualities, and becoming devoted friends. So insecurely attached children are not doomed to a life of desperation, withdrawal, clinging, aggression, or insecurity, but they may need some additional help negotiating the complex terrain of the social world. The deeper a child’s unmet need, the harder it may be to ever have it filled later on. Expecting rejection, neglect, or smothering, the child may respond to peers with passivity, withdrawal, or aggression. Children who are afraid to assert their own needs may follow along with whatever the friend or the group says.”
― Best Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children
― Best Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children
“One of the best perks of being a child therapist is that parents think you are awfully clever when their child shows dramatic improvement. Mostly what happens is that the child grew up. He reached a new developmental stage that let him share, control his aggressive impulses, or make a friend.”
― Best Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children
― Best Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children
“We can unwittingly undermine the friendship by imposing our adult standard of justice instead of the child’s standard of forgive-and-forget.”
― Best Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children
― Best Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children
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