Candace Plattor

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Candace Plattor is a professional speaker, a TEDx speaker, and the author of the award-winning "Loving an Addict, Loving Yourself: The Top 10 Survival Tips for Loving Someone with an Addiction".

Candace Plattor, M.A., R.C.C., is an Addictions Therapist in private practice, where she specializes in working with the family and other loved ones of people who are struggling with addiction. As a former opioid addict with over 35 years clean and sober, Candace has learned that overcoming addiction is a family condition: everyone in the family is affected by addiction and everyone needs to heal. For more than three decades, she has been helping both addicts and their loved ones understand their dysfunctional behaviours and make healthier life choic
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Candace Plattor When we do for others something they can - and should - be doing for themselves, we are enabling. Enabling behaviours keep people stuck in their addic…moreWhen we do for others something they can - and should - be doing for themselves, we are enabling. Enabling behaviours keep people stuck in their addiction, while helping behaviours assist them to stop and to choose recovery instead.(less)
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Valentine’s Day Without the Fantasy: A Love Story that Starts with You

Ah yes… Valentine’s Day.
That glittery, heart-shaped holiday that shows up right after we’ve survived Christmas and New Year’s Eve—emotionally, financially, and in some cases, chemically.

Have you ever wondered whose bright idea it was to schedule three emotionally loaded holidays in a row? For many people, the stretch from December through February can be the most difficult time of the year. Ad

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“If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.”
Candace Plattor, Loving an Addict, Loving Yourself: The Top 10 Survival Tips for Loving Someone With an Addiction

“Let's face it — life with an addict is hard. No matter what the outward addiction is, the underlying dynamic of an addict's life is one of chaos.”
Candace Plattor

“Whether the addict in your life is your spouse, partner, parent, child, friend, or colleague, the key to changing this reality for yourself lies in shifting your focus from your loved one's addiction to your own self-care.”
Candace Plattor

“If nothing ever changed, there would be no butterflies.”
Candace Plattor, Loving an Addict, Loving Yourself: The Top 10 Survival Tips for Loving Someone With an Addiction

“Whether the addict in your life is your spouse, partner, parent, child, friend, or colleague, the key to changing this reality for yourself lies in shifting your focus from your loved one's addiction to your own self-care.”
Candace Plattor

“Let's face it — life with an addict is hard. No matter what the outward addiction is, the underlying dynamic of an addict's life is one of chaos.”
Candace Plattor

“Never attempt to teach a pig to sing; it wastes your time and annoys the pig.”
Robert Heinlein, Time Enough for Love

“Be the change that you wish to see in the world.”
Mahatma Gandhi

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