When I die I want to be cremated and put into an urn that has parts like Mr. Potatohead, that way kids can play with me. If that doesn't pan out I thought maybe having my ashes put into an Etch-A-Sketch might be cool, or glazed into some fancy plates.
Spend holidays with your family after you pass away, have your ashes glazed into a set of fine china. Holiday dinners will always be a time for families, alive and dead.