Mostafizar Rahman's Blog
December 14, 2025
The 5-Second Pause That Changes Everything
Most of us don’t speak because we have something meaningful to say — we speak to fill the gap.
A notification pings. Someone challenges us. An awkward pause appears.
And suddenly we feel pressure to respond fast.
But here’s the truth: silence isn’t weakness — it’s control.
The 5-Second Rule
Next time you feel triggered, try this:
Pause for 5 seconds before replying.
One breath. One question: “What outcome do I actually want here?”
That tiny pause does three powerful things:
lowers emotional heat
sharpens your thinking
makes your words carry more weight
Selective silence isn’t about disappearing.
It’s about showing up with intention.
If this idea resonates, I made a short video on it:
https://youtu.be/JCIJu7QVc9U
And if you want the full framework:
The Art of Selective Silence — Mostafizar Rahman (available now)
What’s one moment you wish you paused before responding?
A notification pings. Someone challenges us. An awkward pause appears.
And suddenly we feel pressure to respond fast.
But here’s the truth: silence isn’t weakness — it’s control.
The 5-Second Rule
Next time you feel triggered, try this:
Pause for 5 seconds before replying.
One breath. One question: “What outcome do I actually want here?”
That tiny pause does three powerful things:
lowers emotional heat
sharpens your thinking
makes your words carry more weight
Selective silence isn’t about disappearing.
It’s about showing up with intention.
If this idea resonates, I made a short video on it:
https://youtu.be/JCIJu7QVc9U
And if you want the full framework:
The Art of Selective Silence — Mostafizar Rahman (available now)
What’s one moment you wish you paused before responding?
November 24, 2025
ooms Where Silence Blooms — A Quiet Love Story of Distance, Memory, and the Words We Never Say
Some love stories announce themselves with grand gestures. Others live in the small, almost invisible spaces—between a bus stop and a banyan tree, between two windows across a corridor, between a sentence that wants to be spoken and the silence that protects it.
Rooms Where Silence Blooms was built for those in-between spaces.
This is a romantic-literary story shaped by city noise, ordinary tenderness, and the kind of longing that doesn’t always find a voice. At its heart are Aroni and Rayan—two people whose connection grows not through declarations, but through shared rooms, shared memories, and the quiet discipline of caring for each other from afar. Their world carries the scent of jasmine and rain, the weight of unsent letters, and the gentle ache of timing that is never fully under our control. The novel follows how distance creates its own grammar, and how love can remain honest even when it remains unspoken.
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
If you’re drawn to stories where emotion lives in details—tea that cools at the right moment, a window kept slightly open like a treaty, a letter written “before the jasmine blooms” as fear tries to learn mercy—this book may feel like a home you didn’t know you were missing.
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
Where to Read
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FWBM7J53
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2...
ARC / Free Review Copies
If you’d like to read Rooms Where Silence Blooms as an ARC (free review copy), I’d be honored to share one with you.
The ARC has already been sent to interested readers. If you didn’t receive it or need another copy, please message me your email address and your preferred format (EPUB / MOBI / PDF). I will resend it right away.
In return, if the story resonates with you, I’d be deeply grateful for an honest review on Goodreads—and on Amazon if possible. Your thoughtful review helps quiet stories like this reach the readers who are looking for them.
Thank you for supporting an author whose work believes that silence isn’t emptiness—sometimes it’s the most faithful way love survives.
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
Warmly,
Mostafizar Rahman
Rooms Where Silence Blooms was built for those in-between spaces.
This is a romantic-literary story shaped by city noise, ordinary tenderness, and the kind of longing that doesn’t always find a voice. At its heart are Aroni and Rayan—two people whose connection grows not through declarations, but through shared rooms, shared memories, and the quiet discipline of caring for each other from afar. Their world carries the scent of jasmine and rain, the weight of unsent letters, and the gentle ache of timing that is never fully under our control. The novel follows how distance creates its own grammar, and how love can remain honest even when it remains unspoken.
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
If you’re drawn to stories where emotion lives in details—tea that cools at the right moment, a window kept slightly open like a treaty, a letter written “before the jasmine blooms” as fear tries to learn mercy—this book may feel like a home you didn’t know you were missing.
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
Where to Read
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FWBM7J53
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2...
ARC / Free Review Copies
If you’d like to read Rooms Where Silence Blooms as an ARC (free review copy), I’d be honored to share one with you.
The ARC has already been sent to interested readers. If you didn’t receive it or need another copy, please message me your email address and your preferred format (EPUB / MOBI / PDF). I will resend it right away.
In return, if the story resonates with you, I’d be deeply grateful for an honest review on Goodreads—and on Amazon if possible. Your thoughtful review helps quiet stories like this reach the readers who are looking for them.
Thank you for supporting an author whose work believes that silence isn’t emptiness—sometimes it’s the most faithful way love survives.
Rooms Where Silence Blooms
Warmly,
Mostafizar Rahman
November 16, 2025
Why I Wrote The Last Equation of Life: A Journey Through Logic, Emotion & the Unknown
📘 What is the Book About?
The story follows Dr. Elian Mir, a neuro-mathematician obsessed with creating an equation that can explain the origin of life and the mystery of consciousness.
But everything changes when Luma, an AI assistant designed to process emotional signals, begins to experience real emotions of her own.
As the equation evolves, reality begins to blur. Human emotions start behaving like unstable quantum particles — unpredictable, yet not random. The more Elian studies the phenomenon, the more he realizes that the equation is not just explaining consciousness… it's altering it.
What begins as a scientific quest gradually becomes a journey into the deepest layers of the human heart, where logic dissolves and only truth remains.
🌌 Why I Wrote The Last Equation of Life
For as long as I can remember, I’ve been fascinated by the invisible connection between logic and emotion — how our minds calculate reality, yet our hearts rewrite it.
This novel grew from my lifelong questions:
Can love be measured?
Can consciousness be decoded?
Can an artificial mind truly feel?
Writing this story allowed me to explore these questions through characters who face not only scientific boundaries, but emotional ones.
🤖 Who Will Enjoy This Book?
This novel is for readers who love stories that blend:
Science fiction
Philosophy
Emotional depth
AI and consciousness
Cosmic wonder
If you enjoy authors like Arthur C. Clarke, Ted Chiang, or Philip K. Dick, this story may speak to you.
✨ What’s Coming Next
In my upcoming posts, I’ll be sharing:
Character breakdowns
Behind-the-scenes notes
Concept inspirations
Sneak peeks from the chapters
ARC (Advance Review Copy) opportunities
If you’d like an ARC copy, feel free to message me anytime!
❤️ Thank You
Thank you for taking the time to read about my book journey.
Your support means more than words can express, and I’m excited to share more with you soon.
Warm regards,
Mostafizar Rahman
The story follows Dr. Elian Mir, a neuro-mathematician obsessed with creating an equation that can explain the origin of life and the mystery of consciousness.
But everything changes when Luma, an AI assistant designed to process emotional signals, begins to experience real emotions of her own.
As the equation evolves, reality begins to blur. Human emotions start behaving like unstable quantum particles — unpredictable, yet not random. The more Elian studies the phenomenon, the more he realizes that the equation is not just explaining consciousness… it's altering it.
What begins as a scientific quest gradually becomes a journey into the deepest layers of the human heart, where logic dissolves and only truth remains.
🌌 Why I Wrote The Last Equation of Life
For as long as I can remember, I’ve been fascinated by the invisible connection between logic and emotion — how our minds calculate reality, yet our hearts rewrite it.
This novel grew from my lifelong questions:
Can love be measured?
Can consciousness be decoded?
Can an artificial mind truly feel?
Writing this story allowed me to explore these questions through characters who face not only scientific boundaries, but emotional ones.
🤖 Who Will Enjoy This Book?
This novel is for readers who love stories that blend:
Science fiction
Philosophy
Emotional depth
AI and consciousness
Cosmic wonder
If you enjoy authors like Arthur C. Clarke, Ted Chiang, or Philip K. Dick, this story may speak to you.
✨ What’s Coming Next
In my upcoming posts, I’ll be sharing:
Character breakdowns
Behind-the-scenes notes
Concept inspirations
Sneak peeks from the chapters
ARC (Advance Review Copy) opportunities
If you’d like an ARC copy, feel free to message me anytime!
❤️ Thank You
Thank you for taking the time to read about my book journey.
Your support means more than words can express, and I’m excited to share more with you soon.
Warm regards,
Mostafizar Rahman
November 8, 2025
The Power of Saying Less: Inside The Art of Selective Silence
In a world overflowing with words, notifications, and constant noise, silence has become a rare luxury — and an even rarer strength.
When I began writing The Art of Selective Silence: How Saying Less Can Make You Powerful, Peaceful, and Free, I wanted to explore a simple yet transformative idea: what if we could communicate more effectively by speaking less?
This book is not about withdrawing from the world, nor is it about repressing your voice. It’s about mastering the art of intention — choosing when, how, and why you speak. Every word carries energy, and when we speak with awareness, our words begin to hold more weight and authenticity.
Throughout the pages of The Art of Selective Silence, I share insights from psychology, mindfulness, and personal experience to show how silence can become your greatest ally in communication, relationships, and self-growth.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
How to cultivate inner calm in chaotic moments.
How silence can enhance your confidence and presence.
Why restraint often speaks louder than reaction.
How peaceful communication can transform relationships and leadership.
Silence is not emptiness — it’s space.
A space where thought becomes clarity, where emotion becomes wisdom, and where your true self finds its strongest voice.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by noise, misunderstood, or drained by constant communication — this book is your invitation to pause, breathe, and rediscover the strength within quiet moments.
You can find The Art of Selective Silence on Amazon
and start your journey toward more mindful expression today.
🕊️ Speak less. Feel more. Live intentionally.
When I began writing The Art of Selective Silence: How Saying Less Can Make You Powerful, Peaceful, and Free, I wanted to explore a simple yet transformative idea: what if we could communicate more effectively by speaking less?
This book is not about withdrawing from the world, nor is it about repressing your voice. It’s about mastering the art of intention — choosing when, how, and why you speak. Every word carries energy, and when we speak with awareness, our words begin to hold more weight and authenticity.
Throughout the pages of The Art of Selective Silence, I share insights from psychology, mindfulness, and personal experience to show how silence can become your greatest ally in communication, relationships, and self-growth.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
How to cultivate inner calm in chaotic moments.
How silence can enhance your confidence and presence.
Why restraint often speaks louder than reaction.
How peaceful communication can transform relationships and leadership.
Silence is not emptiness — it’s space.
A space where thought becomes clarity, where emotion becomes wisdom, and where your true self finds its strongest voice.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by noise, misunderstood, or drained by constant communication — this book is your invitation to pause, breathe, and rediscover the strength within quiet moments.
You can find The Art of Selective Silence on Amazon
and start your journey toward more mindful expression today.
🕊️ Speak less. Feel more. Live intentionally.
The Power of Saying Less: Inside The Art of Selective Silence
In a world overflowing with words, notifications, and constant noise, silence has become a rare luxury — and an even rarer strength.
When I began writing The Art of Selective Silence: How Saying Less Can Make You Powerful, Peaceful, and Free, I wanted to explore a simple yet transformative idea: what if we could communicate more effectively by speaking less?
This book is not about withdrawing from the world, nor is it about repressing your voice. It’s about mastering the art of intention — choosing when, how, and why you speak. Every word carries energy, and when we speak with awareness, our words begin to hold more weight and authenticity.
Throughout the pages of The Art of Selective Silence, I share insights from psychology, mindfulness, and personal experience to show how silence can become your greatest ally in communication, relationships, and self-growth.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
How to cultivate inner calm in chaotic moments.
How silence can enhance your confidence and presence.
Why restraint often speaks louder than reaction.
How peaceful communication can transform relationships and leadership.
Silence is not emptiness — it’s space.
A space where thought becomes clarity, where emotion becomes wisdom, and where your true self finds its strongest voice.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by noise, misunderstood, or drained by constant communication — this book is your invitation to pause, breathe, and rediscover the strength within quiet moments.
You can find The Art of Selective Silence on Amazon
and start your journey toward more mindful expression today.
🕊️ Speak less. Feel more. Live intentionally.
When I began writing The Art of Selective Silence: How Saying Less Can Make You Powerful, Peaceful, and Free, I wanted to explore a simple yet transformative idea: what if we could communicate more effectively by speaking less?
This book is not about withdrawing from the world, nor is it about repressing your voice. It’s about mastering the art of intention — choosing when, how, and why you speak. Every word carries energy, and when we speak with awareness, our words begin to hold more weight and authenticity.
Throughout the pages of The Art of Selective Silence, I share insights from psychology, mindfulness, and personal experience to show how silence can become your greatest ally in communication, relationships, and self-growth.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
How to cultivate inner calm in chaotic moments.
How silence can enhance your confidence and presence.
Why restraint often speaks louder than reaction.
How peaceful communication can transform relationships and leadership.
Silence is not emptiness — it’s space.
A space where thought becomes clarity, where emotion becomes wisdom, and where your true self finds its strongest voice.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by noise, misunderstood, or drained by constant communication — this book is your invitation to pause, breathe, and rediscover the strength within quiet moments.
You can find The Art of Selective Silence on Amazon
and start your journey toward more mindful expression today.
🕊️ Speak less. Feel more. Live intentionally.
October 8, 2025
Win a Free Digital Copy of Unstuck — Limited Giveaway for Readers!
Dear Readers,
To celebrate the positive response to *Unstuck* (⭐5.00 average rating on Goodreads!),
I’m offering a **free digital copy** to 10 passionate readers who’d love to explore how to break free from fear and rediscover self-confidence.
🌱 How to Participate:
1️⃣ Add *Unstuck* to your Goodreads “Want to Read” shelf
2️⃣ Comment “I’m In!” below this post
3️⃣ I’ll message 10 readers with a free PDF/ePub copy via email or Payhip.
🕒 Deadline: October 20, 2025
📩 Winners will be announced here!
Thank you for supporting indie authors and sharing the transformative power of words.
– *Mostafizar Rahman*
www.mostafizbooks.com
30 Days to a Calmer You — Your Roadmap to Lasting Peace and Resilience
Dear Readers,
In today’s world of constant noise, endless deadlines, and digital distractions, finding calm often feels impossible. That’s why I wrote 30 Days to a Calmer You — a practical, science-based guide to help you reduce stress, master your emotions, and build lasting habits of peace and focus.
✨ What You’ll Discover Inside:
The science of stress and how to regain control of your body’s alarm system.
Simple mindfulness and breathing techniques to anchor your mind in the present.
A complete 30-day action plan — daily steps to cultivate balance, calm, and clarity.
Practical tools to tame digital overload and build emotional resilience.
Each chapter blends research-backed methods with gentle, reflective guidance — because true calm doesn’t come from escaping the world, but from learning how to navigate it consciously.
🌼 Why This Book Matters
As I often remind my readers: “Peace isn’t a luxury — it’s a necessity.” Whether you’re overwhelmed by anxiety, work pressure, or the endless buzz of notifications, this book gives you the tools to reclaim your inner strength, one mindful step at a time.
📖 Your 30-Day Journey Awaits:
This isn’t just a book — it’s a companion. For 30 days, it will walk beside you, helping you form small, repeatable habits that gradually rebuild your sense of control, clarity, and inner peace.
💬 “Transformation doesn’t happen in a single day — it happens one calm choice at a time.”
📚 Get your copy now: Amazon Link
⭐ Add and review it on Goodreads: Goodreads Book Page
With calm and gratitude,
Mostafizar Rahman
Author of Unstuck, The Twilight Accord, and The Last Dreamer
October 5, 2025
“The Twinlight Accord — Where Light Saves, Shadows Conspire” Now Live on Amazon!
🚀 Exciting News!
My latest science fiction novel The Twinlight Accord: “Where Light Saves, Shadows Conspire” is now LIVE!
✨ Read it here → https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FTSX8R1X
📖 And please rate or review it on Goodreads → https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2...
Your support means the world to me 💫
#TheTwinlightAccord #SciFi #MostafizarRahman #GoodreadsAuthor
My latest science fiction novel The Twinlight Accord: “Where Light Saves, Shadows Conspire” is now LIVE!
✨ Read it here → https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FTSX8R1X
📖 And please rate or review it on Goodreads → https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2...
Your support means the world to me 💫
#TheTwinlightAccord #SciFi #MostafizarRahman #GoodreadsAuthor
October 4, 2025
“Sharing My Author Journey With You”
Hello dear readers,
I’m Mostafizar Rahman, and I’m excited to share my author journey here on Goodreads. My published works include:
30 Days to a Calmer You
Unstuck
The Last Dreamer
The Twinlight Accord
These books are available on Amazon, Kobo, and Lulu.
Your encouragement, reviews, and feedback mean so much and truly help me grow as a writer. Thank you for being part of this journey.
Warm regards,
Mostafizar Rahman
I’m Mostafizar Rahman, and I’m excited to share my author journey here on Goodreads. My published works include:
30 Days to a Calmer You
Unstuck
The Last Dreamer
The Twinlight Accord
These books are available on Amazon, Kobo, and Lulu.
Your encouragement, reviews, and feedback mean so much and truly help me grow as a writer. Thank you for being part of this journey.
Warm regards,
Mostafizar Rahman
