Don't let social media fool you on what #RelationshipGoals really are. This past weekend I went to a pool party in Vegas and the women there were acting real classy and what not.. until the DJ started playing 'Don't stop pop that, don't stop what you twerking with' and when I tell you all the formal ladies turned into stripper freaks (I say stripper freaks because 'stripper' is a profession they get paid to create an illusion through dancing and we as consumers pay them for such service, so don't get this misconstrued because I fuck with strippers).I know you all heard the saying a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets. I thought this pool party was bouta turn into a porno.. Wanna know why? Because men see all that ass shaking and clothes removal and they are thinking of one thing and one thing only. SEX. (But if you went to a party in hopes to find a man to begin with than your priorities are all messed up and you should just bypass this post and go log on to FarmersOnly.com or some shit.)Women rant on social media how there aren't any real man out there who 1. Buy flowers, 2. Open doors, 3. Pay bills, 4. Take you out (somewhere other than to ladies free drinks 5. Listen to sum it up I see a lot of post that there aren't any REAL men out there. WRONG.There are a ton of REAL men out here who do all 5 of those things. They just don't do them for you. Know why?! Because you're too busy on social media trying to impress all the dudes (and gals) on your friendslist with half naked pictures and videos. You're too busy curving the nice men because he don't go out every weekend probably because most likely he has a 9-5, a car, a crib and responsibilities. You're too busy entertaining dudes (dudes not men) who still go by nicknames like Man Man who probably sells nickels and dimes of Reggie, lives with his mom (or girlfriend that he lied to you about) ain't never had a lease or a check stub in his name. But since his name is poppin' in the streets (Mostly because he is in the club every weekend), has a nice car (which is probably in his girlfriend's name) and flashes a little money in your face you choose the latter.It's not hard to find a REAL man if you are in fact looking for a Man but most women are looking for boys who will disrespect you in front of his boys and run your credit up GIRL LET THAT GO!!You can't find a REAL man cause thats not what you're searching for. So then the question becomes what is it about yourself that you feel you don't deserve a real man? Cause you do! Leave Pookie and Ray ray 'nem alone and get you a man that wants the same thing you do.But you can't be half naked bussin' it open on Facebook and think Men are going to come running ready to open doors for you, because only door they're going to open for you is the car door to let you out on the side of the damn road somewhere.. cause to get a real man you must first be a real woman..