I recently posed the question 'Does Social media ruin relationships?'. For the most part the outcome was how I thought it would be, men said yes and women said no. Here's the reasoning..For women we feel as if no social media doesn't ruin relationships because we are not in a relationship with social media we are in a relationship with the man (or woman) who has a social media account but may or may not post things that a committed person shouldn't post.You can't get caught on Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, Twitter etc doing something that you're not doing right? Its not social media that is making a person do something outside of their character. It's you as a person not having enough willpower to partake in conversations, posts or pictures that YOU should not be doing!For men it's not as easy as 123, and if a woman speaks up about something they dislike on Social Media all of a sudden she is insecure. You see a picture on Facebook and you like the post. Oh then maybe the girl likes something of yours so against your better judgement you decide to slide in her inbox right? Wrong! It could be common courtesy for someone to want to reciprocate the liking of a post or picture.Half the time for men they have a whole relationship that they've been in for maybe 10 years but their Facebook status says 'Single' why? because they feel it isn't anyone's business as to what they are doing and who they are doing it with!Social media doesn't ruin relationships. When you break up with someone its not because Snapchat broke you up. Its because of what that person was doing on Snapchat. Now if you're in a relationship and have a Tender account that may ruin the relationship whether you're on there or not. Tender ruins relationships!