I was asked on Quora – How do I rebuild my life after getting ruined almost fully due to a bad marriage?

This question rings a bell with lot of people who suffered due to a bad marriage, financial losses or another catastrophic failure.  Many of us get too focussed on something that we know will not help us in the long run.

It is understandable as this situation almost ruined you and all your thoughts keep turning towards it. I can suggest following way forward: