Most people see each other through the outer shell, the physical appearance. Look her hair looks nice, looks he has muscles. His/her smile. His/ her eyes.

As an observer, I would careless of appearance. I notice actions, behavior. I want to know more about people’s history, your weakness, failures, strengths. Past relationships and why it ended. I know I am nosy and everything but that is how I connect. Physically, mentally, and/or spiritually connection with someone.

Maybe that is why I hate small talk. I really don’t share about the weather, politics, sports, school and such.

This is how I choose friends. How I start liking someone…

Then again, the main reason, I probably act this is from this Bible verse:

2020, here we come!!