Several people have told me that the secret to a happy marriage/good relationships was to never go to bed angry. In other words, don’t get into a fight or an argument and then go to sleep seething with all that anger. It is good advice and it’s just as helpful when it comes to successful relationships and forgiveness. The feeling you go to bed with is likely going to be the one you wakeup with AND your magical subconscious mind is going to be working overtime while you try to sleep.

So, let’s ca...