So far much of what we talked about has been very negative. Yes, the end goal has been increased peace of mind and happiness, but to get there, we had to wade through all the ugly stuff first and work hard at forgiving it. While that’s certainly a big part of the story, it isn’t all of it. In any situation, no matter how ugly or sad, there’s also something good, or something good is coming out of it. If nothing else, our negative experiences help us grow and shape us into the good people we are ...