Come on now – WHAT do you want?
Awareness of your true desires is a key element in achieving it. How lucky do you need to be to end up in a desired place, if you just start walking without knowing where you want to go and how to get there?
The more clearly and precisely you know what it is that you desire, the more clearly you can manifest these outcomes in your mind and build a strong internal foundation to support it – which naturally leads to the right actions at the right time, and all that increases greatly your chances of achieving it.
Writing your outcomes down is critical. It sends a signal to your CNS (central nervous system), that this is an important direction to follow. The following mini assignments will help you clarify your true desires.
Write down 100 realistic achievements / desires, you wish you could do or be in this lifetime (pay attention – REALISTIC desires, which means it depends on your efforts and physically possible).
What does happiness mean to you, specifically?
What is your greatest fear? How did you allow this fear to sabotage your efforts in the past? How did this fear help you avoid uncomfortable or embarrassing situations? How did this fear shape your philosophy of life?
When you leave the house, what items must be on you, otherwise you’d feel uneasy? And why?Who do you truly and unconditionally love? Who loves you, truly and unconditionally?
Which personality traits you like the most in people you know?
Which personality traits you dislike the most in people you know?
Which personality traits you dislike the most in yourself?
What is your most favorite taste? Smell?
If you could sum up your whole personality into one sentence, what would it say?
In contrast to the last statement, how would you want to be remembered and talked about?
Is there anything that lately keeps you up at night, worrying and fretting about it?
Life offers us plenty of lessons. What is the most important lesson you learned out of your life so far?
You’ve reached the end of your journey, many years ahead, sitting with your favorite drink on a balcony viewing the sunset, only a few hours before you pass away. Smile. You feel you’ve accomplished your purpose in this lifetime, and you gently recall each and every one of your many achievements and contributions to the world. What are they?
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