Bendell Werry’s Law

Bendall Werry wrote this post on X last year:

It is shared often on X. It is proven true over and over again by women who have large public platforms. Just this week, Lila Rose’s post was being shared:

Feminism was rotten from its roots. It’s rebellion against God and His ordained authority structure. She fights against abortion, but it’s feminism that led to abortion.

Whenever I would see Werry’s Law being passed around, I knew it would never describe me. John Moody on Facebook shared both of these posts above recently. I wrote this underneath his: “I have a public platform, but I will never lean towards liberalism. I stick to God’s Word alone and teach only what He commands I teach. I make no money so I am not beholden to anyone. My only goal is for women to understand God’s beautiful will for them.”

A man responded under my comment: “But you’re not building a business empire. (Not saying authors can’t) but it seems to me podcasting especially under the network subscription model (think DW as an example) is about building a business and not teaching people. You’re trying to help women. Many women podcasters profit from appealing to men without actually helping women.”

I am not a business empire. I have no employees. I teach women exactly what God commands me to teach in Titus 2:4,5. I make no money on my social media platforms, and the money I make from my books goes to a local pro-life organization. I don’t make podcasts interviewing other people. I don’t travel nor speak at conferences. I am home full time and always available for my family.

I see many young female influencers with large platforms who make a lot of money, travel for interviews and conferences, and they have children at home. There is no way they are always available for their families. They aren’t keepers at home, as God commands them to be. Many of them are breadwinners for their families. This is not God’s order.

One woman responded to John’s post with these words: “Right. All those bastions of feminist liberal sellouts à la Elisabeth Elliot, Agatha Christie, Catherine Booth, Florence King, Mother Teresa, Margaret Thatcher, Florence Nightingale, Phyllis Schlafly, Jeane Kirkpatrick, Amy Carmichael, Clare Boothe Luce, and Edith Stein. They should stayed in the kitchen where they belonged, am I right? I understand making generalizations, but this isn’t a useful one because it implies that all conservative women are in danger (or too stupid/gullible) when they participate in the public sphere, and that’s just not true. And it’s an ultra-modern take that ignores great female conservatives in history.”

John responded: “It only takes 10 minutes of historical research to know the vast majority of women listed above were absolute disasters on so many different levels. It’s almost hilarious. Someone tries to cite them as Stallworth examples of conservative femininity. You almost have to be completely ignorant of the history of a lot of these women to make such an audacious claim and not consider how easily fact checked it would be…Amy Carmichael was a false teacher and rebel who taught procreation and children were bad and ruled over others in a way immoral and unbiblical for both men and women in any position to do.”

Why have I shared this? I want to warn you young women who have an ambition to have a large, public platform that takes you away from caring full time for your family and home. You must obey God. His ways are good! Fame and fortune are fleeting but investing your life into your family has eternal rewards. Keep your eyes upon this. Remind yourself that godliness with contentment is great gain. Continue to be the wife, mother, and homemaker that God has called you to be. Stick close to His Word and His ways for you. His ways are good!

She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
Proverbs 31:27

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Published on November 25, 2025 06:00
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