There’s a saying, which is not found in the Bible, yet seems true:

‘Hurt people hurt people’

Do you cause physical, emotional or spiritual harm to others? God will judge you for that. Therefore, cease from doing so immediately!

I recommend counselling with a Christian counsellor, or better still, fasting, prayer and Bible study to help you to eradicate egoic tendencies that cause harm.

God is slow to anger, offering you a long time to repent and turn away from doing evil. But he gets...