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Jul 31, 2013 06:44PM
In response to the comment "What do you have to say about the language". It is so typical of those that were never abused to become upset with the victim when they relay their abuse as it happened. The abuse was also the language used to the child at the time. You can not put a pretty bow on abuse and expect it to be understood. If the language was offensive to you as an adult, how do you think a child felt going through this year after year. People need to stop complaining to the victims who finally use their voice and start standing beside the victim. If you were in a crowd and someone used profanity in front of your child, I assure you you would speak up. Victims don't have that luxury. Pedophiles exist because people help them to hide in plain site. I applaude Sue for using her voice that was silenced for so long. That voice is helping her to heal, helping victims of past abuse and hopefully helping prevent future abuse. There is nothing pretty or sweet about abuse. People who have not been abused are shocked and do not want to believe the depth of abuse...until they are touched by it. Once a pedophile always a pedophile. They are your husbands, fathers, priests, coaches and neighbors. Instead of complaining why not learn something. I am sorry that the Author even had to respond to that question. Everyday victims suffer ridicule from people. Ridicule which adds to their suffering. Shame on you for even asking that question. Thank you, Sue, for your courage.
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The above message from MI refers to the question and answers from the July 28th blog.Thank you for the comment, MI. You are so right on everything you said. I hope in time more people will realize this and stop ridiculing and criticizing the ones who have been abused. It's hard to come forward and talk about our abuse, but it's something that needs to be talked more about.
It's time for everyone to face the fact that child abuse does exist. Child abuse is a national epidemic, and it is not going to stop as long as non-believers continue to say things that prevent others from coming forward.
Comments from readers will also help put an end to child abuse!!
Thank you again, MI for taking the time to comment.








