At the beginning of last school year, I posted an article on my blog titled “Pep Talk.” This 2015-2016 school year, I want to repost that article, adding a few more points.

As our children journey back to school this year, let us not forget to give them a huge hug and/or kiss while assuring them we are their best advocates, and spokespersons just long as they follow school rules, respect themselves and others, and follow the laws of the land.

I believe in my heart-of-hearts if we instill in our children there are rules to be followed, perhaps our children can and will avoid adverse issues unawares that could surface along their crossings.

Our children must also learn empathy, and care for one another. Using their manners by simply saying words such as “excuse me” “thank you” and the like will soften spirits.

When our children are not with us, but in the trusting hands of school officials, we must allow our children to soar with independence while becoming responsible citizens in our society who will one day be charged with making decisions in our stead.

Remind our children to choose their company wisely, not become followers but leaders. Let us remind them if it doesn’t seem right, it probably isn’t right. Tell our children it is okay to move themselves out, or away from situations that aren’t good for their well-being. They must trust their “gut feelings.” So, when peer pressure lurks their way, it is okay to stand tall and say “no.”

Tell children to “keep their heads to the grind” meaning – listen to your teachers, get organized and remain that way.  Remain studious, ask questions, and get their assignments completed in timely fashions.

Let us not forget to closely monitor our children’s coming and goings. Ask questions about their day, possible homework, or just ask, “Is there anything I need to know?” You’d be surprised at their relief that you asked, and what you may learn from them.

Let us give our children a “pep talk” today and throughout the school year, and let us pray for their safety, strength, and positive growth in right directions.

~ See more helpful back to school information at:

Wipe Out Bullying: Is it Possible?

http://cherryevasquez.tateauthor.com/wipe-out-bullying-it-is-possible/

My Child is Being Bullied: Oh, I Don’t Think So!

http://cherryevasquez.tateauthor.com/my-child-is-being-bullied-oh-i-dont-think-so/