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"Eggerichs defines "respect" as basically giving men whatever they want, whenever they want it, no questions asked. Any kind of questioning, telling a man no, or asserting that he respect a woman in turn, is deemed "disrespect" in his book. This book has been directly cited by many women as having been used by their abusive partners as justification and inspiration for those partners' actions."

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"Esther Perel is infamous for being an apologist-for-infidelity-in-denial. Her books will gaslight you by claiming that "of course there is no good excuse to cheat" but then blame the cheated-on partner for not making the relationship "exciting" enough and arguing that monogamy is unnatural and unsophisticated. She encourages cheated-on partners to allow cheaters to "mourn" the affair, and infamously had a couple set up a shrine to the husband's mistress in their living room as part of the "healing process.""

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