Dena
Dena asked Jesse Q. Sutanto:

About Vera- you say she is 60 years old but you refer to her as an old lady. If you hadn't mentioned her age, from all you wrote I'd have guessed she was, maybe 85 years old. When you reach your 60th year will you appreciate being called an old lady?

Jesse Q. Sutanto Yes I will, because in my culture, same as Vera's, the older you are, the more respect you garner, therefore to be seen as old is a sign of respect. Have a nice day! :)

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