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  • #1
    Elizabeth Gilbert
    “I was suffering the easily foreseeable consequences. Addiction is the hallmark of every infatuation-based love story. It all begins when the object of your adoration bestows upon you a heady, hallucinogenic dose of something you never dared to admit you wanted-an emotional speedball, perhaps, of thunderous love and roiling excitement. Soon you start craving that intense attention, with a hungry obsession of any junkie. When the drug is witheld, you promptly turn sick, crazy, and depleted (not to mention resentful of the dealer who encouraged this addiction in the first place but now refuses to pony up the good stuff anymore-- despite the fact that you know he has it hidden somewhere, goddamn it, because he used to give it to you for free). Next stage finds you skinny and shaking in a corner, certain only that you would sell your soul or rob your neighbors just to have 'that thing' even one more time. Meanwhile, the object of your adoration has now become repulsed by you. He looks at you like you're someone he's never met before, much less someone he once loved with high passion. The irony is,you can hardly blame him. I mean, check yourself out. You're a pathetic mess,unrecognizable even to your own eyes. So that's it. You have now reached infatuation's final destination-- the complete and merciless devaluation of self." - pg 20-21”
    Elizabeth Gilbert

  • #2
    Jodi Picoult
    “You know someone's right for you when the things they don't have to say are even more important than the things they do.”
    Jodi Picoult, Sing You Home

  • #3
    William Paul Young
    “I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
    Wm. Paul Young, The Shack

  • #4
    Edna St. Vincent Millay
    “I know I am but summer to your heart, and not the full four seasons of the year.”
    Edna St. Vincent Millay

  • #5
    Helen Fielding
    “Can officially confirm that the way to a man's heart these days is not through beauty, food, sex, or alluringness of character, but merely the ability to seem not very interested in him.”
    Helen Fielding, Bridget Jones’s Diary

  • #6
    David Richo
    “Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
    David Richo

  • #7
    “Be sure it's your real self you're showing. Because it is your real self that needs to be loved.”
    Daphne Rose Kingma, Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Bring You the Love of Your Life

  • #8
    Steve Maraboli
    “Perfectly Imperfect

    We have all heard that no two snowflakes are alike. Each snowflake takes the perfect form for the maximum efficiency and effectiveness for its journey. And while the universal force of gravity gives them a shared destination, the expansive space in the air gives each snowflake the opportunity to take their own path. They are on the same journey, but each takes a different path.
    Along this gravity-driven journey, some snowflakes collide and damage each other, some collide and join together, some are influenced by wind... there are so many transitions and changes that take place along the journey of the snowflake. But, no matter what the transition, the snowflake always finds itself perfectly shaped for its journey.
    I find parallels in nature to be a beautiful reflection of grand orchestration. One of these parallels is of snowflakes and us. We, too, are all headed in the same direction. We are being driven by a universal force to the same destination. We are all individuals taking different journeys and along our journey, we sometimes bump into each other, we cross paths, we become altered... we take different physical forms. But at all times we too are 100% perfectly imperfect. At every given moment we are absolutely perfect for what is required for our journey. I’m not perfect for your journey and you’re not perfect for my journey, but I’m perfect for my journey and you’re perfect for your journey. We’re heading to the same place, we’re taking different routes, but we’re both exactly perfect the way we are.
    Think of what understanding this great orchestration could mean for relationships. Imagine interacting with others knowing that they too each share this parallel with the snowflake. Like you, they are headed to the same place and no matter what they may appear like to you, they have taken the perfect form for their journey. How strong our relationships would be if we could see and respect that we are all perfectly imperfect for our journey.”
    Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

  • #9
    Albert Einstein
    “We know from daily life that we exist for other people first of all, for whose smiles and well-being our own happiness depends.”
    Albert Einstein

  • #10
    “I'm tired of waiting by the phone, and second-guessing what a guy says and trusting someone not to hurt me. Again. I've been storming the relationship castle for fifteen years, and I still don't have my prince. I've got a bunch of battle scars from the field and I want to go home and nurse my wounds. I don't want to fight anymore.”
    Kim Gruenenfelder, A Total Waste of Makeup

  • #11
    Byron Katie
    “It's not your job to like me - it's mine”
    Byron Katie

  • #12
    Dale Renton
    “When what you hear and what you see don't match, trust your eyes.”
    Dale Renton

  • #13
    Daphne du Maurier
    “Either you go to America with Mrs. Van Hopper or you come home to Manderley with me."
    "Do you mean you want a secretary or something?"
    "No, I'm asking you to marry me, you little fool.”
    Daphne du Maurier, Rebecca

  • #14
    “Unrequited love is the infinite curse of a lonely heart.”
    Christina Westover

  • #15
    Sarah Dunn
    “She never got a chance to fall out of love, to do it properly, slowly and thoroughly, and the result was he was like a phantom limb. Gone but still there. And like a true phantom limb, the preponderance of feelings associated with him were painful.”
    Sarah Dunn

  • #16
    Charles Baxter
    “What's agitating about solitude is the inner voice telling you that you should be mated to somebody, that solitude is a mistake. The inner voice doesn't care about who you find. It just keeps pestering you, tormenting you--if you happen to be me--with homecoming queens first, then girls next door, and finally anybody who might be pleased to see you now and then at the dinner table and in bed on occasion. You look up from reading the newspaper and realize that no one loves you, and no one burns for you.”
    Charles Baxter, El festín del amor

  • #17
    Sarah Dessen
    “Don't be a fool. Don't give up something important to hold onto someone who can't even say they love you.”
    Sarah Dessen, Someone Like You

  • #18
    C. JoyBell C.
    “There is a relationship between the eye contacts we make and the perceptions that we create in our heads, a relationship between the sound of another's voice and the emotions that we feel in our hearts, a relationship between our movements in space all around us and the magnetic pulls we can create between others and ourselves. All of these things (and more) make up the magic of every ordinary day and if we are able to live in this magic, to feel and to dwell in it, we will find ourselves living with magic every day. These are the white spaces in life, the spaces in between the written lines, the cracks in which the sunlight filters into. Some of us swim in the overflowing of the wine glass of life, we stand and blink our eyes in the sunlight reaching unseen places, we know where to find the white spaces, we live in magic.”
    C. JoyBell C.

  • #19
    George Eliot
    “When a man has seen the woman whom he would have chosen if he had intended to marry speedily, his remaining a bachelor will usually depend on her resolution rather than on his.”
    George Eliot, Middlemarch

  • #20
    Suzanne Finnamore
    “I used to loathe ambivalence; now I adore it. Ambivalence is my new best friend.”
    Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce

  • #21
    “It's unexpectedly painful to have become a pronoun.”
    Robin Black, If I Loved You, I Would Tell You This

  • #22
    Jane Austen
    “It was told to me, it was in a manner forced on me by the very person herself whose prior engagement ruined all my prospects, and told me, as I thought, with triumph. This person's suspicions, therefore, I have had to oppose by endeavouring to appear indifferent where I have been most deeply interested; and it has not been only once; I have had her hopes and exultations to listen to again and again. I have known myself to be divided from Edward forever, without hearing one circumstance that could make me less desire the connection. Nothing has proved him unworthy; nor has anything declared him indifferent to me. I have had to content against the unkindness of his sister and the insolence of his mother, and have suffered the punishment of an attachment without enjoying its advantages. And all this has been going on at the time when, as you too well know, it has not been my only unhappiness. If you can think me capable of ever feeling, surely you may suppose that I have suffered now.”
    Jane Austen, Sense and Sensibility

  • #23
    Deb Caletti
    “Too often in my life, love has been defined as "humiliation with occasional roses".”
    Deb Caletti, The Secret Life of Prince Charming

  • #24
    Adam S. McHugh
    “When introverts go to church, we crave sanctuary in every sense of the word, as we flee from the disorienting distractions of twenty-first-century life. We desire to escape from superficial relationships, trivial communications and the constant noise that pervade our world, and find rest in the probing depths of God's love.”
    Adam S. McHugh, Introverts in the Church: Finding Our Place in an Extroverted Culture

  • #25
    Stephen R. Covey
    “My wife and I just don't have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just don't love her anymore and she doesn't love me. What can i do?"
    "The feeling isn't there anymore?" I asked.
    "That's right," he reaffirmed. "And we have three children we're really concerned about. What do you suggest?"
    "love her," I replied.
    "I told you, the feeling just isn't there anymore."
    "Love her."
    "You don't understand. the feeling of love just isn't there."
    "Then love her. If the feeling isn't there, that's a good reason to love her."
    "But how do you love when you don't love?"
    "My friend , love is a verb. Love - the feeling - is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?”
    Stephen R. Covey, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change

  • #26
    Hilary Thayer Hamann
    “Kate lost a mother," I said, "but I lost a nothing."
    Kate doesn't feel that way," Jack assured me.
    But what about everybody else besides Kate? How can I ever explain to anyone what she was when she and I had no name? People need names for everything. I wasn't a relative or a friend, I was just an object of her kindness."
    He wiped my cheeks, saying Ssshh. I buried my face in his shoulder.
    True kindness is stabilizing," I went on. "When you feel it and when you express it, it becomes the whole meaning of things. Like all there is to achieve. It's life, demystified. A place out of self, a network of simple pleasures, not a waltz, but like whirls within a waltz."
    You're the one now," Jack said definitively. "That's why you met her. She had something she had to pass on." (p. 95)”
    Hilary Thayer Hamann, Anthropology of an American Girl

  • #27
    Brian L. Weiss
    “Understand the nature and influence of repeating patterns, from childhood experiences or even from past lives. Wthout understanding, patterns tend to repeat, unnecessarily damaging the relationship.”
    Brian Weiss, Messages from the Masters: Tapping into the Power of Love

  • #28
    Iain Banks
    “Anyway, you can't leave her like that. You can't do that to the woman. She doesn't deserve it; nobody does. You don't belong to her and she doesn't belong to you, but you're both part of each other; if she got up and left now and walked away and you never saw each other again for the rest of your lives, and you lived an ordinary waking life for another fifty years, even so on your deathbed you would still know she was part of you.”
    Iain Banks

  • #29
    May Sarton
    “When I speak of life and love as expanding with age, sex seems the least important thing. At any age we grow by the enlarging of consciousness, by learning a new language, or a new art or craft (gardening?) that implies a new way of looking at the universe. Love is one of the great enlargers of the person because it requires us to "take in" the stranger and to understand him, and to exercise restraint and tolerance as well as imagination to make the relationship work.”
    May Sarton, Journal of a Solitude

  • #30
    Kellie Elmore
    “Sacrifices made for love are fine, unless the sacrifice is you.”
    Kellie Elmore



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