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#1

“livid, adj.

Fuck You for cheating on me. Fuck you for reducing it to the word cheating. As if this were a card game, and you sneaked a look at my hand. Who came up with the term cheating, anyway? A cheater, I imagine. Someone who thought liar was too harsh. Someone who thought devastator was too emotional. The same person who thought, oops, he’d gotten caught with his hand in the cookie jar. Fuck you. This isn’t about slipping yourself an extra twenty dollars of Monopoly money. These are our lives. You went and broke our lives. You are so much worse than a cheater. You killed something. And you killed it when its back was turned.”
― David Levithan, The Lover's Dictionary

tags: cheating, hate, infidelity, love

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#2

“How can I grieve what is still in motion?" I ask her. "Shoes are still dropping all over the place. I´m not kidding," I say. "It´s Normandy out there.”
― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce

tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, grieving, infidelity, marriage, relationships

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#3

“I sensed he may have occasionally strayed in some of his past relationships. It was something I felt but ignored, a rent in the fabric of an otherwise splendid garment I thought I could mend. I thought I could live with it—I thought, yes and I admit it, that I would be different. That at the very least, middle age and children would slow him down; however, they seemed to accelerate his pace.”
― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce

tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation

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#4

“I kept telling myself that all the women in the world weren´t whores, just mine.”
― Charles Bukowski, Factotum

tags: betrayal, cheating, relationships, women

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#5

“If you are stupid enough to cheat, then definitely dumb enough to get caught.”
― Aman Jassal, Rainbow - the shades of love

tags: cheat, cheated, cheater, cheaters, cheating, love, love-quotes, lovers, stupid, stupidity, stupidity-of-man

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#6

“Over time, any deception destroys intimacy, and without intimacy couples cannot have true and lasting love.”
― Bonnie Eaker Weil, Financial Infidelity: Seven Steps to Conquering the #1 Relationship Wrecker

tags: lying, marriage, relationships

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#7

“To borrow against the trust someone has placed in you costs nothing at first. You get away with it, you take a little more and a little more until there is no more to draw on. Oddly, your hands should be full with all that taking but when you open them there’s nothing there.”
― Jeanette Winterson, Written on the Body

tags: trust

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#8

“It´s like watching someone do a triple backflip dismount and land on two feet, solid, arms splayed in the air. I know I could never do it, don´t even know where I would begin to learn, but some people are built for it. He was handcrafted to leave, had practiced on other women since adolescence. I was one of an unnumbered series.”
― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce

tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation

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#9

“I mentally bless and exonerate anyone who has kicked a chair out from beneath her or swallowed opium in large chunks. My mind has met their environment, here in the void. I understand perfectly.”
― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce

tags: cheating, death, divorce, infidelity, marriage, seperation, suicide

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#10

“How do you know? How best to ensure his nervous breakdown?" I ask.

"Keep going," Christian says. "Just go on as if nothing has happened. We all hate that.”
― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce

tags: breaking-up, cheating, deception, divorce, infidelity, marriage, relationships

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#11

“I will eternally give thanks for those women who essentially said, ‘Yes, I see you. And I love you. I see your pain. You have every right to be right where you are, right now. And you will come through this. You will.”
― Meryn G. Callander, After His Affair: Women Rising from the Ashes of Infidelity

tags: affair, cheating, infidelity, partner, relationships, unfaithful

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#12

“Nobody has ever killed themselves over a broken arm. But every day, thousands of people kill themselves because of a broken heart. Why? Because emotional pain hurts much worse than physical pain.”
― Oliver Markus Malloy, Bad Choices Make Good Stories (Omnibus): How The Great American Opioid Epidemic of The 21st Century Began - a Memoir

tags: abuse, abuse-survivors, betrayal, cheating, emotions, pain, suicide

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#13

“Fuck u for saying I love u knowing u didn't mean what u said u when u know my uncle was dead telling people u broke up with me chatting on me with my bff knowing she a was wanting a boyfriend your a list to man kind making your gender look bad aka octravious Shelton we are over”
― Keamber pope

tags: cheating

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#14

“Cheats prosper until there are enough who bear grudges against them to make sure they do not prosper.”
― Peter Singer, The Expanding Circle: Ethics and Sociobiology

tags: cheating, ethics, evolution, philosophy

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#15

“You didn't just cheat on me; you cheated on us. You didn't just break my heart; you broke our future.”
― Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

tags: broken-heart, cheat, cheated, cheating, future, happiness, life, relationships, soul-mates

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#16

“Cheaters are cowards that are tempted to chase the fantasy of what could be… instead of courageously addressing their own self-destructive behavior and cultivating what is.”
― Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

tags: cheated, cheater, cheating, life, love, relationships

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#17

“Pain is temporary. Quitting lasts forever.”
― Lance Armstrong Sally Jenkins, Every Second Counts

tags: cancer, failure, inspiration, inspirational, pain, quitting

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#18

“You asked why I couldn't forgive you," Nick said, very quietly, and I jumped a little. "It was because you were the love of my life, Harper. And you didn't want to be. That's hard to let go.”
― Kristan Higgins, My One and Only

tags: breakup, couples, divorce, love, sad

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#19

“I'll tell you something, Harpy," he said, his voice almost a whisper now. "It never even occurred to me that we wouldn't make it. And it never occurred to you that we would. You were just waiting for us to go down in flames. I thought we could get through anything.”
― Kristan Higgins, My One and Only

tags: breakup, divorce, heartbreak, love, romance, sad

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#20

“Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse.”
― Groucho Marx

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#21

“The whole world seems tilted, my inner ear displaced by a hole where my spouse used to be.”
― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce

tags: cheating, divorce, husband, infidelity, marriage, seperation, spouses

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#22

“Losing a mate to death is devastating but it's not a personal attack like divorce. When somebody you love stops loving you and walks away, it's an insult beyond comparison.”
― Sue Merrell, Great News Town

tags: death, divorce, love

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#23

“The obvious effect of frivolous divorce will be frivolous marriage. If people can be separated for no reason they will feel it all the easier to be united for no reason.”
― G.K. Chesterton, The Superstition of Divorce

tags: divorce, marriage

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#24

“I thought the world had actually ended. I thought nothing good could ever happen again. I thought anything might happen if I wasn't vigilant. I didn't eat. I didn't go out. I didn't want to see anyone. But I survived, Paul. Much to my own surprise, I got through it. And life...well, gradually became livable again.”
― Jojo Moyes, The Girl You Left Behind

tags: death, divorce, life-changing

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#25

“It’s not the pain and the wounds that are the worst... The worst is the humiliation.”
― Pascal Mercier, Night Train to Lisbon

tags: humiliation, pain

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#26

“I know now with blind certainty that no matter what, eventually marriage is just two financially interdependent strangers staring across the kitchen table at each other. They have backpacks slung across their bodies, containing their sexual and romantic history and unresolved issues and family memories. And there´s nothing but cold cereal, because the days of flaky croissants and foamy cappuccino are over. Reality reclines on top of the refrigerator, leering down with a wry yet tender expression. And one day it all just collapses and the backpacks are hauled away to another kitchen table.”
― Suzanne Finnamore, Split: A Memoir of Divorce

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#27

“whiskey makes the heart beat faster
but it sure doesn't help the
mind and isn't it funny how you can ache just
from the deadly drone of
existence?”
― Charles Bukowski, The People Look Like Flowers at Last

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#28

“Do you think it’s easy for me? No, I don’t remember you. I don’t remember holding you or talking to you or falling in love with you—but I walk around with a giant hole in my heart all the time. I feel your absence every second of the day. It aches and nothing soothes it. Losing you is bad enough, but I don’t even get the comfort of remembering that I had you once.
-Haden”
― Gwen Hayes, Falling Under

tags: demon, love, sorrow

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#29

“I would like to be able to breathe— to be able to love her by memory or fidelity. But my heart aches. I love you continuously, intensely.”
― Albert Camus, Notebooks 1951-1959

tags: ache, albert-camus, camus, heart, love, pain

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#30

“Throughout the ordeal, I learned that getting mad was easier than being sad. Anger was something I could control. I could settle into an easy rhythm of blame and hate. Focus my energy on something than the ache in my heart.”
― Emily Giffin, Baby Proof

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