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  • #1
    “It's effortless to let go of self-absorbed people. It's challenging to let go of someone you care about and it's exceedingly difficult to let go of an ideal and a belief in someone because what exacerbates the disappointment of finding out they weren't who they presented themselves to be, is the betrayal of it.”
    Donna Lynn Hope

  • #2
    Jodi Picoult
    “Three months ago, if you asked me, I would have told you that if you really loved someone, you’d let them go. But now I look at you, and I dreamed about Maggie, and I see that I’ve been wrong. If you really love someone, Allie, I think you have to take them back.”
    Jodi Picoult, Mercy

  • #3
    Steve Maraboli
    “Sometimes letting go is simply changing the labels you place on an event. Looking at the same event with fresh eyes.”
    Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

  • #4
    Winna Efendi
    “You can meet someone who’s just right, but he might not be meant for you. You break up, you lose things, you never feel the same again. But maybe you should stop questioning why. Maybe you should just accept it and move on.”
    Winna Efendi, Melbourne: Rewind

  • #5
    Shannon L. Alder
    “A competitive and insecure woman will tell you that “true love” is never giving up on someone you're in love with. A confident and spiritual woman knows that “moving on” doesn’t mean you never loved someone. She realizes that letting go is what God needs her to do because both your happiness and hers requires taking different journeys for spiritual growth. Letting go is sometimes the hardest thing, but it is the most “real love” you will ever experience.”
    Shannon L. Alder

  • #6
    Rebecca Solnit
    “The art is not one of forgetting but letting go. And when everything else is gone, you can be rich in loss.”
    Rebecca Solnit, A Field Guide to Getting Lost

  • #7
    Tabitha Suzuma
    “They say when you really love someone, you should be willing to set them free. So that is what I am doing. I will step back and you will move on. I will let you go. ... Your happiness means everything to me. I will listen for your voice in the distance. I will look at the moon. I will keep you in my pocket. I will carry your smile with me everywhere, like a warm and comforting glow.”
    Tabitha Suzuma, A Voice in the Distance

  • #8
    “When I say I'm going to forget you I know it's impossible to forget someone I once knew. What I want is to erase you from my thoughts and purge you from my memories. I'm saying it's what I wish for, not what is or could ever be.”
    Donna Lynn Hope

  • #9
    Steve Maraboli
    “Love is forgiving, accepting, moving on, embracing, and all encompassing. And if you’re not doing that for yourself, you cannot do that with anyone else.”
    Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

  • #10
    Susane Colasanti
    “She's not going to let go until she sees for herself that there's nothing left to hold on to.”
    Susane Colasanti, Take Me There

  • #11
    Mandy Hale
    “You will evolve past certain people. Let yourself.”
    Mandy Hale, The Single Woman–Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass: Embracing Singleness with Confidence

  • #12
    Alexandra Elle
    “No matter how bad you want a person, if your hearts are in two different places, you’ll have to pass and move on.”
    Alexandra Elle

  • #13
    Lang Leav
    “Letting him go

    There is a particular kind of suffering to be experienced when you love something greater than yourself. A tender sacrifice. Like the pained silence felt in the lost song of a mermaid; or the bent and broken feet of a dancing ballerina. It is in every considered step I am taking in the opposite direction of you.”
    Lang Leav

  • #14
    Isabel  Lopez
    “I eventually came to understand that in harboring the anger, the bitterness and resentment towards those that had hurt me, I was giving the reins of control over to them. Forgiving was not about accepting their words and deeds. Forgiving was about letting go and moving on with my life. In doing so, I had finally set myself free.”
    Isabel Lopez, Isabel's Hand-Me-Down Dreams

  • #15
    Lee  Goff
    “Sometimes the door closes on a relationship, not because we failed but because something bigger than us says this no longer fits our life. So, lock the door, shed a tear, turn around and look for the new door that's opened. It's a sign that you're no longer that person you were, it's time to change into who you are. It's going to be okay.”
    Lee Goff

  • #16
    Lee  Goff
    “Sometimes the strongest thing you will ever do will be to let go of someone. It will be painful, you will suffer guilt, and you will second-guess yourself, but for your own sanity and quality of life, there will come a time where you hand them to God, with your love, and trust Him to be who and what He is. May our Lord comfort you.”
    Lee Goff

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    Shannon L. Alder
    “Love is proved the moment you let go of someone because they need you to.”
    Shannon L. Alder

  • #19
    Shannon L. Alder
    “Your attachment to unhealthy people and bad habits, which offer you no real control, is why you’re spiritually dying and living a life out of balance.”
    Shannon L. Alder

  • #20
    Shannon L. Alder
    “The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely living in the realism of NOW.”
    Shannon L. Alder

  • #21
    Shannon L. Alder
    “My father taught me that you can you read a hundred books on wisdom and write a hundred books on wisdom, but unless you apply what you learned then its only words on a page. Life is not lived with intentions, but action.”
    Shannon Alder

  • #22
    Shannon L. Alder
    “Nothing changes until people decide to do the things they must, in order to bring about peace.”
    Shannon L. Alder

  • #23
    “You will say good-bye for all the right reasons. You're tired of living in wait for his apocalypse. You have your own fight on your hands, and though it's no bigger or more noble than his, it will require all of your energy.

    It's you who has to hold on to earth. You have to tighten your grip -- which means letting go of him.”
    Melissa Bank, The Girls' Guide to Hunting and Fishing

  • #24
    “Don't allow someone not worth it to have the power to occupy your thoughts. If they don't find you worth the effort or the time, why should you waste yours?”
    Donna Lynn Hope

  • #25
    Amaka Imani Nkosazana
    “If someone doesn't care to accept you, respect you, believe in you, don't hesitate to move on and let them go. There are many who love and appreciate you just the way you are.”
    Amaka Imani Nkosazana, Sweet Destiny

  • #26
    Liezi
    “Chuang-tzu once told a story about two persons who both lost a sheep. One person got very depressed and lost himself in drinking, sex, and gambling to try to forget this misfortune. The other person decided that this would be an excellent chance for him to study the classics and quietly observe the subtleties of nature. Both men experience the same misfortune, but one man lost himself because he was too attached to the experience of loss, while the other found himself because he was able to let go of gain and loss.”
    Liezi, Lieh-tzu: A Taoist Guide to Practical Living

  • #27
    Seth Adam Smith
    “If you truly love someone, have the faith to 'let them go.' Encourage them to be the fullest measure of themselves, and you will be overwhelmed by the love that your spouse returns to you.”
    Seth Adam Smith

  • #28
    Thich Nhat Hanh
    “We can't wait to be happy until we remove one hundred percent of suffering. That moment will never exist.”
    Thích Nhất Hạnh

  • #29
    “There's no point in arguing and loving someone who doesn't want to be with you and doesn't want to keep you in his life.. the real person will try harder to reach out and work for the best and what's supposed to be done to their relationship.. but things are not so good this time, it's time to try letting go.”
    Ressha

  • #30
    Shannon L. Alder
    “The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it, compete with it, complain about it, immortalize it, cry over it, kick it, defame it, stalk it, gossip about it, pray over it, put it down or dissect its motives it continues to rot in your brain. It is dead. It is over. It is gone. It is done. It is time to bury it because it is smelling up your life and no one wants to be near your rotted corpse of memories and decaying attitude. Be the funeral director of your life and bury that thing!”
    Shannon L. Alder



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