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  • #1
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Love is the only way to grasp another human being in the innermost core of his personality. No one can become fully aware of the very essence of another human being unless he loves him. By his love he is enabled to see the essential traits and features in the beloved person; and even more, he sees that which is potential in him, which is not yet actualized but yet ought to be actualized. Furthermore, by his love, the loving person enables the beloved person to actualize these potentialities. By making him aware of what he can be and of what he should become, he makes these potentialities come true.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #2
    Erich Fromm
    “Love is a decision, it is a judgment, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgment and decision.”
    Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving

  • #3
    Nichita Stănescu
    “Tell me, if I caught you one day
    And kissed the sole of your foot,
    Wouldn't you limp a little then,
    Affraid to crush my kiss?...”
    Nichita Stanescu

  • #4
    Jen Campbell
    “on the phone
    Bookseller: Hello Ripping Yarns.
    Customer: Do you have any mohair wool?
    Bookseller: Sorry, we're not a yarns shop, we're a bookshop.
    Customer: You're called Ripping Yarns.
    Bookseller: Yes, that's 'yarns' as in stories.
    Customer: Well it's a stupid name.
    Bookseller: It's a Monty Python reference.
    Customer: So you don't sell wool?
    Bookseller: No.
    Customer: Hmf. Ridiculous.
    Bookseller: ...but we do sell dead parrots.
    Customer: What?
    Bookseller: Parrots. Dead. Extinct. Expired. Would you like one?
    Customer: Erm, no.
    Bookseller: Ok, well if you change your mind, do call back.”
    Jen Campbell, Weird Things Customers Say in Bookshops

  • #5
    Erich Fromm
    “Nationalism is our form of incest, is our idolatry, is our insanity. 'Patriotism' is its cult...Just as love for one individual which excludes the love for others is not love, love for one's country which is not part of one's love for humanity is not love, but idolatrous worship.”
    Erich Fromm

  • #6
    Erich Fromm
    “What does one person give to another? He gives of himself, of the most precious he has, he gives of his life. This does not necessarily mean that he sacrifices his life for the other—but that he gives him of that which is alive in him; he gives him of his joy, of his interest, of his understanding, of his knowledge, of his humor, of his sadness—of all expressions and manifestations of that which is alive in him. In thus giving of his life, he enriches the other person, he enhances the other's sense of aliveness by enhancing his own sense of aliveness. He does not give in order to receive; giving is in itself exquisite joy. But in giving he cannot help bringing something to life in the other person, and this which is brought to life reflects back to him.”
    Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving

  • #7
    Erich Fromm
    “The faculty to think objectively is reason; the emotional attitude behind reason is that of humility. To be objective, to use one's reason, is possible only if one has achieved an attitude of humility, if one has emerged from the dreams of omniscience and omnipotence which one has as a child. Love, being dependent on the relative absence of narcissism, requires the developement of humility, objectivity and reason.

    I must try to see the difference between my picture of a person and his behavior, as it is narcissistically distorted, and the person's reality as it exists regardless of my interests, needs and fears.”
    Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving

  • #8
    Erich Fromm
    “Modern capitalism needs men who co-operate smoothly, and in large numbers; who want to consume more and more; and whose tastes are standardized and can be easily influenced and anticipated. It needs men who feel free and independent, not subject to any authority or principle or conscience—yet willing to be commanded, to do what is expected of them, to fit into the social machine without friction; who can be guided without force, led without leaders, prompted without aim—except the one to make good, to be on the move, to function, to go ahead. What is the outcome? Modern man is alienated from himself, from his fellow men, and from nature.”
    Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving

  • #9
    Søren Kierkegaard
    “Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world’s foolishness, you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too; laugh at the world’s foolishness or weep over it, you will regret both. Believe a woman, you will regret it; believe her not, you will also regret it… Hang yourself, you will regret it; do not hang yourself, and you will regret that too; hang yourself or don’t hang yourself, you’ll regret it either way; whether you hang yourself or do not hang yourself, you will regret both. This, gentlemen, is the essence of all philosophy.”
    Søren Kierkegaard

  • #10
    Haruki Murakami
    “The human heart is like a night bird. Silently waiting for something, and when the time comes, it flies straight toward it.”
    Haruki Murakami, Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage

  • #11
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “For the first time in my life I saw the truth as it is set into song by so many poets, proclaimed as the final wisdom by so many thinkers. The truth - that Love is the ultimate and highest goal to which man can aspire. Then I grasped the meaning of the greatest secret that human poetry and human thought and belief have to impart: The salvation of man is through love and in love.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #12
    Viktor E. Frankl
    “Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather must recognize that it is he who is asked. In a word, each man is questioned by life; and he can only answer to life by answering for his own life; to life he can only respond by being responsible.”
    Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

  • #13
    Elizabeth Gilbert
    “I have a history of making decisions very quickly about men. I have always fallen in love fast and without measuring risks. I have a tendency not only to see the best in everyone, but to assume that everyone is emotionally capable of reaching his highest potential. I have fallen in love more times than I care to count with the highest potential of a man, rather than with the man himself, and I have hung on to the relationship for a long time (sometimes far too long) waiting for the man to ascend to his own greatness. Many times in romance I have been a victim of my own optimism.”
    Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

  • #14
    Elif Shafak
    “Books change us. Books save us. I know this because it happened to me.”
    Elif Shafak

  • #15
    Elif Shafak
    “Every true love and friendship is a story of unexpected transformation. If we are the same person before and after we loved, that means we haven't loved enough.”
    Elif Shafak, The Forty Rules of Love

  • #16
    Matt Haig
    “THE WORLD IS increasingly designed to depress us. Happiness isn’t very good for the economy. If we were happy with what we had, why would we need more? How do you sell an anti-ageing moisturiser? You make someone worry about ageing. How do you get people to vote for a political party? You make them worry about immigration. How do you get them to buy insurance? By making them worry about everything. How do you get them to have plastic surgery? By highlighting their physical flaws. How do you get them to watch a TV show? By making them worry about missing out. How do you get them to buy a new smartphone? By making them feel like they are being left behind. To be calm becomes a kind of revolutionary act. To be happy with your own non-upgraded existence. To be comfortable with our messy, human selves, would not be good for business.”
    Matt Haig, Reasons to Stay Alive

  • #17
    Matt Haig
    “To other people, it sometimes seems like nothing at all. You are walking around with your head on fire and no one can see the flames.”
    Matt Haig, Reasons to Stay Alive

  • #18
    Matt Haig
    “If you are the type of person who thinks too much about stuff then there is nothing lonelier in the world than being surrounded by a load of people on a different wavelength.”
    Matt Haig, Reasons to Stay Alive

  • #19
    Matt Haig
    “You can be a depressive and be happy, just as you can be a sober alcoholic.”
    Matt Haig, Reasons to Stay Alive

  • #20
    Matt Haig
    “What doesn't kill you very often makes you weaker. What doesn't kill you can leave you limping for the rest of your days. What doesn't kill you can make you scared to leave your house, or even your bedroom, and have you trembling, or mumbling incoherently, or leaning with your head on a window pane, wishing you could return to the time before the thing that didn't kill you.”
    Matt Haig, Reasons to Stay Alive

  • #21
    Matt Haig
    “Things people say to depressives that they don’t say in other life-threatening situations:

    ‘Come on, I know you’ve got tuberculosis, but it could be worse. At least no one’s died.’
    'Why do you think you got cancer of the stomach?’
    ‘Yes, I know, colon cancer is hard, but you want to try living with someone who has got it. Sheesh. Nightmare.’
    ‘Oh, Alzheimer’s you say? Oh, tell me about it, I get that all the time.’
    ‘Ah, meningitis. Come on, mind over matter.’
    ‘Yes, yes, your leg is on fire, but talking about it all the time isn’t going to help things, is it?’
    ‘Okay. Yes. Yes. Maybe your parachute has failed. But chin up.”
    Matt Haig, Reasons to Stay Alive

  • #22
    Matt Haig
    “Adding anxiety to depression is a bit like adding cocaine to alcohol. It presses fast-forward on the whole experience. If you have depression on its own your mind sinks into a swamp and loses momentum, but with anxiety in the cocktail, the swamp is still a swamp but the swamp now has whirlpools in it. The monsters that are there, in the muddy water, continually move like modified alligators at their highest speed. You are continually on guard. You are on guard to the point of collapse every single moment, while desperately trying to keep afloat, to breathe the air that the people on the bank all around you are breathing as easily as anything.”
    Matt Haig, Reasons to Stay Alive

  • #23
    Sylvia Plath
    “Let's face it: I'm scared, scared and frozen. First, I guess I'm afraid for myself... the old primitive urge for survival. It's getting so I live every moment with terrible intensity. It all flowed over me with a screaming ache of pain... remember, remember, this is now, and now, and now. Live it, feel it, cling to it. I want to become acutely aware of all I've taken for granted. When you feel that this may be good-bye, the last time, it hits you harder.”
    Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath

  • #24
    Delia Owens
    “His dad had told him many times that the definition of a real man is one who cries without shame, reads poetry with his heart, feels opera in his soul, and does what’s necessary to defend a woman.”
    Delia Owens, Where the Crawdads Sing

  • #25
    Delia Owens
    “Autumn leaves don't fall, they fly. They take their time and wander on this their only chance to soar.”
    Delia Owens, Where the Crawdads Sing

  • #26
    Delia Owens
    “I wasn't aware that words could hold so much. I didn't know a sentence could be so full.”
    Delia Owens, Where the Crawdads Sing

  • #27
    Delia Owens
    “If anyone would understand loneliness, the moon would.”
    Delia Owens, Where the Crawdads Sing

  • #28
    Delia Owens
    “I must let go now. Let you go. Love is too often The answer for staying. Too seldom the reason For going. I drop the line And watch you drift away. “All along You thought The fiery current Of your lover’s breast Pulled you to the deep. But it was my heart-tide Releasing you To float adrift With seaweed.”
    Delia Owens, Where the Crawdads Sing

  • #29
    Delia Owens
    “Never underrate
    the heart,
    Capable of deeds
    The mind cannot conceive.
    The heart dictates as well as feels.
    How else can you explain
    The path I have taken,
    That you have taken
    The long way through this pass?”
    Delia Owens, Where the Crawdads Sing

  • #30
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “Dancing in all its forms cannot be excluded from the curriculum of all noble education; dancing with the feet, with ideas, with words, and, need I add that one must also be able to dance with the pen?”
    Friedrich Nietzsche



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