Desert Mothers Quotes

“Within the desert setting, women faced an additional challenge because they had to manage not only their own spiritual progress but also the constant tension caused by men's reactions to them. A story about an anonymous leader of virgins demonstrates the need to deal gracefully with men who often treated them as a source of temptation rather than as fellow seekers. When some monks made a detour to avoid encountering her and her sisters, she commented, 'If you were a perfect monk, you would not have seen us as women.”
― Kate Cooper, Band of Angels: The Forgotten World of Early Christian Women

“A story is told of one of the most revered abbots of fourth-century Egypt, Pachomius the Great, who refused to see his sister Maria when she came to visit him. The explanation was his own urgent need to avoid someone who might entangle him in the bonds of family feeling, and he was even praised for his self-control in being able to forgo the pleasure of her visit. It is not surprising that women sometimes found the self-involvement of male ascetics irritating.”
― Kate Cooper, Band of Angels: The Forgotten World of Early Christian Women

“While being questioners and questers, we are often lost; we follow too many fads and fashions in our search. Too often we are left with a shallow and narcissistic inner life.”
― Laura Swan, The Forgotten Desert Mothers: Sayings, Lives, and Stories of Early Christian Women

“Amma Sarah knew that her spiritual power was infinite if she could truly forget herself and allow Christ to work through her.”
― Kate Cooper, Band of Angels: The Forgotten World of Early Christian Women

“Women were accustomed to making substantial efforts to please men, while men spent comparatively little of theirs trying to please women. The reports women received from their mothers and married older sisters about intimacy with men probably suggested that it was not all sweetness and light. Living with men required something of the caution needed for handling wild animals. Even for women who were skilled at managing them, there was always an element of danger because of their power and unpredictability. So it would not be at all surprising if women were less troubled by distracting thoughts of the opposite sex.”
― Kate Cooper, Band of Angels: The Forgotten World of Early Christian Women