Doormats Quotes

“You are not an option, a choice or a soft place to land after a long battle. You were meant to be the one. If you can wrap yourself around the idea that you are something incredible, then you will stop excusing behavior that rapes your very soul. You were never meant to teach someone to love you. You were meant to be loved.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“The only people that can't handle the truth are those that suffer so much anxiety that they will live in denial, in order to prevent their illusion from being destroyed and feeling more anxiety.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Women of dignity know when to stop expecting loyalty when he won't even give you honesty.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“You will never let go of the past by ignoring the most painful thing the person you loved has done to you. When you begin to minimize it, second guess yourself and others, ignore it or even pretend it didn't happen you cheat yourself out of healing. Naturally, your mind would rather believe the lies you are telling it, rather than accept the truth. The soul has a way of protecting itself from trauma, but if left in denial there is no growth or change. Healing requires going to that place you avoid and asking yourself why you are so afraid to accept the reality of what happened to you? Why have you minimized it like this person has wanted you to? What is it about your self esteem that allows you to continue being a doormat?”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Forgiveness is not an invitation to become a doormat for other people's hypocrisy.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“When you love yourself you won't need to ask God if someone is being honest with you. You will know already because you wouldn't have asked him if you had the self confidence to know how people should treat you.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Is not the true respect and worship of God the exercising of our power in such a way that we are also respected?”
― Shannon L. Alder

“Confident women know the difference between a man that keeps them around because they are in love with them vs. keeping them around because they are use to them.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“One of the easiest things for a rescuer to do is to love people without a soul because we genuinely believe that our love can fill the void inside them. Unfortunately, it drains us of our own love. The love of self.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“God doesn't ordain stupidity.”
― Shannon L. Alder

“We can't all be doormats.”
― Anthony t hincks