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In July we had a tree fall on our deck and since last Wednesday, we had a guy and his helper come to the house and build a new deck. It appears they should be completely done tomorrow. THANK GOODNESS! Have you ever experienced this? Someone coming and going in your house that has this vibe that makes you uneasy? I can't say that I don't like the guy but I can't say that I like him either. He just makes my home feel off, almost like an atmosphere violation? I don't know how to describe it but I want to mop the air and everything feels dirty.

@Jeni yes this used to happen to me all the time when I lived closer to the ports on a coastal town. Trees fell everywhere and it was like having a stranger get used to being in my house. It felt odd, but I used a home recipe to make the rooms and air feel cleaner afterwards. I can send it to you if you’d like. I hope the repairs are going well and are done quickly! 🏠

@Drew I would love to have that recipe. I was planning a sage smudge, but I'll take everything I can get. Repairs should have been done today but it's extended one more day. At least I get a weekend break.

I can totally relate to this — I can’t settle when there’s someone in the house who isn’t family, especially trades people.

I find myself hovering, anxiety fizzing away and making it impossible to sit still. Then there’s the pressure of remembering to be courteous — offering something to drink, checking if they need anything.

And don’t get me started on the work-related chat… I don’t need to know what’s being done, just pop it on the invoice and be on your way, please!

Not that I’m not thankful — I just want my safe space back! 😅

I have the Sunday Scaries. I know I have an entire day to relax but instead I am spending it bracing myself for tomorrow when he's back.

@LePossume Yes, I just want my safe space back!