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“But you have the capacity to define what fulfilment means to you and you alone and there’s no time like the present to decide.”
― Lola Phoenix, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go

“Remember that you are more powerful than you give yourself credit for.”
― Lola Phoenix, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go

“I think it’s important for people, monogamous or polyamorous, to be comfortable with not having any romantic relationships in their life, because if you’re terrified of being single, you can end up staying in any kind of unfulfilling relationship simply to avoid being alone.”
― Lola Phoenix, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go

“If you are in a place where your nervous system is constantly agitated, where you are fighting with yourself, where you are unhappy with yourself and where you are barely listening to yourself, it’s going to be a struggle to really be able to see if a relationship is actually fulfilling.”
― Lola Phoenix, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go