Sydney

“Remember that you are more powerful than you give yourself credit for.”
― Lola Phoenix, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go

“recognizing what you can control and how your learned helplessness can contribute to your situation isn’t about shaming yourself or about believing you can outperform any obstacle that comes your way. It’s simply about recognizing not only what is out of your control, but also what is in your control and how you can change it.”
― Lola Phoenix, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go

“It took me a long time to understand that being disabled wasn’t about wallowing in anything. Accepting certain things about my body and neurology as differences was actually part of taking responsibility for myself.”
― Lola Phoenix, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go

“I think it’s important for people, monogamous or polyamorous, to be comfortable with not having any romantic relationships in their life, because if you’re terrified of being single, you can end up staying in any kind of unfulfilling relationship simply to avoid being alone.”
― Lola Phoenix, The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go