“Let’s say I try. What happens the next time I inevitably fuck up?” “Then you wake up the next day and you try again and fail again and fail better.”
I loved this book, so much more than just a typical marriage of convenience romance. so many cute life lessons in there as well. 4.5/5 would definitely read again
“Dress up, even if you don’t feel like it. Let your friends cook you a beautiful dinner. Take that painting class that you’ve been meaning to take for so long. Do things to take care of yourself, that make you feel good, to counter the humiliation and your urge to hide. Many people feel too much shame to do these things when they’ve been cast aside, but that’s exactly what I urge them to do.”
― The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
― The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
“For what it’s worth... it’s never too late, or in my case too early, to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit. Start whenever you want. You can change or stay the same. There are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you’ve never felt before. I hope you meet people who have a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of, and if you’re not, I hope you have the courage to start over again.”
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“Anger may make her feel more powerful, temporarily. However, psychologist Steven Stosny observes that “if loss of power was the problem in intimate betrayal, then anger would be the solution. But the great pain in intimate betrayal has little to do with loss of power. Perceived loss of value is what causes your pain—you feel less lovable.”
― The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
― The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
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