It is an act of protest to overcome negative beliefs about money in order to save, pay off debt, invest, and find fulfilling work. It is an act of protest to prioritize rest instead of hustle, abundance rather than scarcity, and generosity
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“The child can feel secure with a parent whom he cannot reduce to his own level of functioning. When safety is established, growth takes place.”
― Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder
― Scattered Minds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder
“Capitalism can be just as extractive as marriage. And if you are going to have your labor exploited, it might be easier to do it in a nice home. But I think the problem is that both narratives are failures. Women dedicating their lives to being cogs in the wheel of capitalism isn’t fulfillment. But neither are home and children. Jobs can be lost. So can homes. Children grow up to become their own people. And home, children, and marriage, however much you want them, might not be accessible for everyone.”
― This American Ex-Wife: How I Ended My Marriage and Started My Life
― This American Ex-Wife: How I Ended My Marriage and Started My Life
“We make women feel brave for sticking it out. For keeping private all the screaming fights, the late nights, the broken cups on the floor, swept up in the morning. We make women feel like they are doing something right for persisting in the lonely drudgery of the American marriage, when the aftermath of the happily-ever-after of the heterosexual marriage is simply negotiating a relationship that is inherently unequal. A relationship made unequal not by accident, but as a function of a society that relies on that inequality to fill in the gaps that it refuses to fund—childcare, eldercare. We do not make women feel brave for making the opposite choice, for walking away from unhappiness.”
― This American Ex-Wife: How I Ended My Marriage and Started My Life
― This American Ex-Wife: How I Ended My Marriage and Started My Life
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