“Love addicts often pick partners who are emotionally unavailable because deep down, they don’t feel worthy of having a healthy, loving relationship. A love addict craves and obsesses about becoming enmeshed or ‘one’ with another human being at all costs, even if it means putting themselves in potential danger.”
― The Kindness Habit: Transforming our Relationship to Addictive Behaviours
― The Kindness Habit: Transforming our Relationship to Addictive Behaviours
“If they spit on you,
collect their spittle to water your plants.
If they throw stones at you,
pick them up to adorn your garden.
If they call you the enemy, a liar and a narcissist.
Plant those very flowers: anemone, lily and narcissus.
Use their crap to cultivate your mind.”
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collect their spittle to water your plants.
If they throw stones at you,
pick them up to adorn your garden.
If they call you the enemy, a liar and a narcissist.
Plant those very flowers: anemone, lily and narcissus.
Use their crap to cultivate your mind.”
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“No matter how kind you are, always expect a few imbeciles.”
― Healology
― Healology
“If we choose not to get involved or pretend it's not happening, we're going against the very sense of connection that makes us human.”
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“I had a therapist once tell me to “sit with my shit,” and I believe that to be a necessary evil of being constantly disappointed.”
― Uganda Be Kidding Me
― Uganda Be Kidding Me
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