Carter

“This may be the fundamental problem with caring a lot about what others think: It can put you on the established path- the my-isn't-that-impressive path- and keep you there for a long time. Maybe it stops you from swerving, from ever even considering a swerve, because what you risk losing in terms of other people's high regard can feel too costly...Your passion stays low, yet under no circumstances will you underperform. You live, as you always have, by the code of effort/result, and with it you keep achieving until you think you know the answers to all the questions- including the most important one. Am I good enough? Yes, in fact I am.”
― Michelle Obama, Becoming