Desiree Stage

“I began to imagine what life would feel like if I didn’t have to do anything I didn’t want to do. I explored how my life would be impacted if I was able to choose what I said yes or no to. I invited myself to consider what my relationships would feel like if I wasn’t doing what I thought I should be doing and instead chose only what felt right to me.”
― Yasmine Cheyenne, The Sugar Jar: Create Boundaries, Embrace Self-Healing, and Enjoy the Sweet Things in Life

“why clean when it will look like this tomorrow? A really common defeating message that we say to ourselves is “What’s the point of picking up? It’s just going to look like this again tomorrow.” I find this stems from that binary view of care tasks that they can be only either done or not done and that done is the superior state. But keeping everything done isn’t the point. Keeping things functional is the point because here’s the thing: it will look like that again tomorrow only if I clean it today. If I don’t clean it, it will be even more messy because we live here and we create mess. And if tomorrow’s mess on top of today’s mess is going to make my space not function for me, then it’s time to reset the space. I tidy things up not because it’s bad that it’s messy but because it has reached the end of that cycle of functionality and I need to reset it so it can have another twenty-four hours of it serving me.”
― K.C. Davis, How to Keep House While Drowning