Ben

“The longer and more carefully we look at a funny story, the sadder it becomes.”
― Nikolai V. Gogol

“Equations are the devil's sentences.”
― Stephen Colbert

“Talking successfully about feelings requires you to be scrupulous about taking the judgments, attributions, and statements of blame out of what you are saying, and putting the statement of feeling in. It is crucial to look at the actual words you are using to see whether those words really convey what you want them to. For”
― Douglas Stone, Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most

“Because when we set out to try to change someone, we are more likely to argue with and attack their story and less likely to listen. This approach increases the likelihood that they will feel defensive rather than open to learning something new. They are more likely to change if they think we understand them and if they feel heard and respected. They are more likely to change if they feel free not to.”
― Douglas Stone, Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most