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“My grandfather says it,” Odkell said. “It’s our family motto. We believe in making mistakes and having regrets. As long as it hurts no one.” “But it’s OK if you hurt yourself?” He shrugged. “Why not? It is your experience. If you die, it
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“Only horses were honest, in the end.”
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― Horse
“Well, they say trauma etches the neurons, and I was traumatized by my appalling behavior.” Typical, Theo thought. He’d been accused, yet she was traumatized.”
― Horse
― Horse
“I don't rightly know who was my great-grandfather, much less his father. How come you know that about a horse?”
― Horse
― Horse
“I still can’t believe it.” Daniel ran a hand through his locs. “Yeah. Right.” She caught the thin wedge of anger in his voice. “Well. I can’t.” “He couldn’t, either. Whereas I—we—all his friends—can believe it, no problem. Who does that? Go help some White girl. In a park. In Northwest DC. At night.” He shook his head and dropped another book into the box. “What else could he have done?” Daniel straightened. “Girl, he should have sped up, kept on running right to a well-lit road, and called some White folk to help her. He just didn’t know how he needed to be if he was going to live in this country.” He sighed. “We tried. Gave him ‘the talk,’ like our parents did when we were little kids.” He shook his head. “He thought he knew about cops. But the cops he knew in England, ninety percent of them weren’t carrying guns. No, make that a hundred percent, the bougie ’hoods where he came up. Art historian, Lord Fauntleroy accent, Yale and Georgetown—none of it was ever going to keep him safe. Like I said, we tried to warn him. But seems like it never sank in.”
― Horse
― Horse
“Only make one meal for your kids. They won’t starve to death if they don’t eat it. In fact, if they are hungry every night because they refuse dinner, perhaps they’ll learn to eat more. “I call it the Starbucks Phenomenon: The expectation that it’s okay for each person in the family to order something different in the home,” Dr. Fishel says. “That’s just another burden on who is doing the cooking and could be another impediment.”
― You Can't F*ck Up Your Kids: A Judgment-Free Guide to Stress-Free Parenting
― You Can't F*ck Up Your Kids: A Judgment-Free Guide to Stress-Free Parenting
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